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it's my birthday this week and you have to post a lot okay? :^)


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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

One of my old nursing profs invited me to a research project and told her advisor I'm a "dear colleague" awwww πŸ₯Ή

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

by outperforming the news mega we're proving that Nothing Ever Happens thonk-trans

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

Going around with leaves and flowers in my hair is a type of gender probably. I'm the only one in my family who's tall enough that my head hits an archway we made of plants so I just go around town with some of them in my hair unless someone points it out

[–] forcefemjdwon@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

I have recently become aware of a most cursed study from 2018 concerning willingness to date trans people.

transmisogyny

Sample of just over a hundred lesbians found the demographic was more willing to incongruently date trans men than have a congruent attitude towards trans and cis women regarding their sexuality.

DOI is 10.1177/0265407518779139

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

t4t winning :3

codepency and traumabonding issues:

ah

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

There's no way I'm getting nostalgia from being active in the trans mega...

I think I missed this, y'all. Oh and I'm gay.

But really, idk why this week feels like such a classic trans mega experience. I'm more active yes, but there's something else about it. Is it the effort of beating the news mega (because they're literally in the dust, well done transgender patriots), is it the weather being warmer again (Pride 2024 mega throwback), is it literally just the fact that high comment count is getting to my head? I don't know, but I've been having fun this week. Especially today, I kind of feel like I'm spamming but at the same time it's such a throwback.

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

I guess this answers my question from the other day doggirl-sweat

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago

Idk what I’m gonna do, I don’t have a good sense of how well I pass or if I could stealth it.

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

apple on the left and strawberry on the right :)

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Smithers: "They do have an excellent LGBT policy."

Mr. Burns: "What's that stand for, Lazy Goof-off Buffoons? And Transgender."

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

My bedtime is utterly fucked, 4 hours of sleep tonight maybe less because I'm a dummy

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

Being a bad influence to kids by sitting with bad posture in public

[–] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Just got perma banned from some reddit-logo sub fpr telling a mod that "incoherent removed"(the fascist eugenicist term starting with "d") is not a good term to use for banning any kind of sexual content. Oh well, was my first comment in like 4 years anyway. Reminder why I stopped last time. Got spoiled by hexbear.

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[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

i wore a swimsuit for the first time last night reisen-dance

it was at this day spa thing with my partner and her mum, i wore a one piece with a swim skirt over the top which hid pretty much anything i was concerned about. i was hella anxious about getting clocked/weird looks but none of that happened (or if it did, it was too subtle for me to notice)

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)
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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)
[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

We are beating the News Mega doggirl-thumbsup

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago

We're so back :screm-cool:

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[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

it's my birthday this week and you have to post a lot okay? :^)

I just saw that this was actually demanded of Eco, so we have to post a lot for his birthday catgirl-salute

It is an obligation

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

I gotta buy a car. I fuckin hate going in there to that den of thieves and vipers and grifters, do the whole fucking show and dance, waste 4 hours or more on bullshit only to be given a quote that's just gonna rip me off, pretend the salesman has to beg for a better deal with a manager, only to have them come back with another bull shit offer and then just walk the fuck away from this stupid fucking bull shit without a car but at least not ripped off

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

The News Mega has surpassed us doggirl-gloom

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[–] Azarova@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

CW drug mentionwhy does every drug taste bad cri

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

kind of embarrassingOkay so you know the "10 second" rule, if someone can't fix something quickly don't point it out? Big fan. Good to not bring up things a lot of the time. However there's something that has been driving me nuts for a while now and I finally fixed, but I feel like someone could have said something a while ago kitty-cri I understand why no one did but its kinda embarrassing, all this time and it just genuinely didn't click with me... anyway I look and feel a lot better now.

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (29 children)

If gender was a food

spoilerIdk but people need to respond to me, I got rid of my upbear count so the only engagement I see is people responding to my comments 😭 anyway respond with your favorite food and I'll associate that with your gender going forward

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

HappyI can go days without shaving and not see facial hair doggirl-happy

SadI can still feel it tho doggirl-cry

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

mental health, addiction mentionwas so stressed and burned out earlier I was seriously considering relapsing and going on a bender but didn't

want to stay sober but feel so dejected by everything lately I kinda just wanna get fucked up and am having a harder and harder time trying to convince myself against that

painfully lonely and unhappy with where I am in my life rn and I have a hard time imagining things getting better for me anytime soon

I think I'm always gonna be alone and unhappy with my body and I don't know what to do about that

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Found out I have an iron deficiency, very girl coded doggirl-thumbsup

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[–] other_platypus@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

doing my part to spam this thread is also therapist-and-girlfriend-approved as i dont want to isolate myself anymore

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

Half my coworkers are perimenopausal, some have radical hysterectomies. We're all on estrogen (even me~). We talked about premarin and I mentioned the scythian cult-thing that drank pregnant mare's urine like 4000 years ago, they thought it was cool. Rural women

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[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago

Today, I took a little sneak peek at the knitting group I’m about to join. Was only there for about an hour, just saying hello to everyone and getting familiar with the rules there.

And fucking wow! Everyone there was so damn nice. doggirl-tears

I was fully expecting things to be quite awkward, because "intruding" into a community where everyone else already knows each other usually is, but they were really forthcoming towards me.

So, yay! I finally get to be more social again after distancing myself from others for so long. doggirl-grin

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