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Original question by @zachimusprime44@lemmy.world

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[–] zlatiah@lemmy.world 11 points 2 hours ago

The worshipping of the self-made man and entrepreneurship in popular American culture

I think I was just too young and fashionable, maybe I was one of those guys that saw themselves as a "temporarily embarrassed billionaire"... then got old enough to see through the nonsense

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 9 points 3 hours ago

The United States government and the United States citizens.

Growing up I was taught about all these checks and balances. How the government is slow and that's good because it makes sure people get what they really want. Come to find out in just one presidential term, this one guy just executes executive orders left and right and just gets things done.

I thought U.S citizens would vote in their best interests but they would glady vote for a facist who's against their best wishes.

[–] gozeth@leminal.space 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I took to kindly, although I was not entirely onboard with, the idea of American exceptionalism.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 8 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Republicans. When I was a child, slogans like “fiscally responsible”, “family values”, “smaller government “ sounded like good things. Republicans always claimed the moral high ground. But they’ve spent my entire adult life proving it as manipulative bullshit for personal greed and power, holding themselves above the law, the worst in humanity, rising to our current flirt with fascism.

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 9 points 3 hours ago
[–] TinyLittlePuni@lemmy.world 16 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Google. It was once a good search engine. Now I find myself getting only the most irrelevant results based on my keywords and more often than not an advanced search turns up nothing of value

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

It went downhill when they got rid of search within results, I don't know why they did that

[–] TinyLittlePuni@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

Me neither! Really frustrates me when companies remove good features for no apparent reason

[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 15 points 10 hours ago

Elon. Turns out he was always a conman and liar.

[–] Oaksey@lemmy.world 32 points 12 hours ago

Google. Do no evil

[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 24 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Nintendo.

Things got worse once Bowser got ahold of the American castle.

The fun dissolved with Iwata and Reggie gone.

The line to far for me was their retroactive bs patents used to attack Palworld. It's one thing to be strict on your own systems, but another to do it to others. 80s Nintendo is back and possibly worse than before.

[–] Widdershins@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

I haven't played with a switch very much but I think the joysticks are worse than what they made for GameCube. I am under the impression that switch has what amounts to a directional pad underneath a joystick. Like that Gameboy peripheral with the lights, magnifier, and joystick that clips over the D pad. The joystick is there on the switch but output is only an analog 8 directions.

Pardon me if I'm wrong here but what I see with Nintendo is them making bad hardware. I know it's made for kids but even they deserve better. The switch version of any big AAA game that got a switch port is generally really really dumbed down and looks and runs like garbage. I can't wait to hear about Cyberpunk 2077 looking and running like garbage again. 5 years after it came out.

[–] TonyOstrich@lemmy.world 15 points 12 hours ago

It wasn't Bowser, it was the finance guys that were placed at the head of the company after Satoru Iwata's death.

[–] leftzero@lemmynsfw.com 13 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Humanity.

Hey, I was a fucking kid, OK. I eventually learned.

[–] Ideonek@lemm.ee 18 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Neil Gaiman. He poisoned so much...

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

In 1994 Neil was at a signing at my university campus. It was a big to-do. My friend, a big fan, came for a signing and whispered a few words.

Suddenly Neil is vaulting the table trying to choke the living shit out of my friend. Friend's backpedaling, eyes wide, Gaimancs face a rictus of rage and fury, and the many people jump in and slow it down

Friendo booted, things fall down, minimal mention in the uni rag. Never learned what was said, but now I suspect it was a pretty badly-kept secret for a long time.

[–] Akasazh@feddit.nl 1 points 47 minutes ago

You friend didn't tell you about what was said?

[–] biber@feddit.org 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Hu? Oh No, do I want to know?

[–] Ideonek@lemm.ee 5 points 10 hours ago (1 children)
[–] biber@feddit.org 3 points 7 hours ago

:( - I'm super sorry for the women. Thanks

[–] Tramort@programming.dev 11 points 12 hours ago
[–] Asfalttikyntaja@sopuli.xyz 32 points 16 hours ago (1 children)
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] kelpie_returns@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

A butterfly complaining about change is low key really funny

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 2 points 2 hours ago

Haha good point

[–] rothaine@lemm.ee 66 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Jk Rowling. She was (I think) the only billionaire to ever debillonaire themselves without dying (i.e., she donated so much wealth to charity that she was no longer a billionaire).

But then she decided to dedicate herself to making trans people's lives miserable...

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 8 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I'm curious which charities she was donating to before she turned into a massive cunt. Cause all she donates to now are hate groups.

[–] rothaine@lemm.ee 8 points 4 hours ago

Good question, I never actually looked into it. According to her Wikipedia page:

She established the Volant Charitable Trust in 2000, and co-founded the charity Lumos in 2005. Rowling's philanthropy centres on medical causes and supporting at-risk women and children. In 2025, Forbes estimated that Rowling's charitable giving exceeded US$200 million. She has also donated to Britain's Labour Party, and opposed Scottish independence and Brexit.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/J._K._Rowling

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[–] bmpvy@feddit.org 12 points 16 hours ago (1 children)
[–] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 1 points 27 minutes ago

This was my first thought as soon as I read the question.

[–] bonn2@lemmy.zip 37 points 20 hours ago

A certain elongated muskrat comes to mind. I love space so the thought of a reusable rocket to make space affordable was awesome. I also believe that electric cars are the future, and tesla did make pretty good charging standard and help to "prove" the concept. But now I just hope he somehow winds up dirt poor, and irrelevant. Just oh, my, god

[–] Ioughttamow@fedia.io 58 points 22 hours ago

Many moons ago I thought Israel was just defending itself. For two decades now I’ve come to believe they are the problem, and are now committing wanton genocide

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 15 points 18 hours ago
[–] flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 100 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Airbnb. I used to think they were a perfect business. Saw a gap in the market, created a decent product, invested in their users (back in the day they would even send a photographer to take good photos of your property).
Unfortunately the consequences turned out to be awful.

[–] reddig33@lemmy.world 37 points 20 hours ago

AirBNB would work better if the owner was required to live in the property 160 days out of the year. Where it went wrong was in letting corporations buy up housing and use it to skirt hotel taxes and regulation.

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[–] soupguy@lemmy.world 115 points 1 day ago (3 children)
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[–] Fletcher 53 points 23 hours ago

I would have to say organized religion. I grew up in a pretty strict christian home, but as I grew older I began to see how much of what I had been told was just patently false and designed to manipulate and control. I have done a lot (decades worth) of studying and reading and I'm confident that the conclusions I have arrived at are correct. Of course, your mileage may vary.

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