Entering my punished Xia arc this weekend… (CW transphobia)
…by driving 6 hours from the cosmopolitan city to the regional town I grew up in, to smooth the egos of my parents in law in person, my phone has died today from being dropped a second time, so I’ll have to get a temp one tomorrow, I’m staying in a mediocre motel so they can have “space”, I’ve already been eye-balled by a youth en route who looked like he wanted to hate crime me.
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I make it sound like a cattle station in nowhere, it’s a fuckin’ tree change tourist trap.
Also dropping my phone twice juggling bags, first as tragedy second as farce, once I get it fixed I’m getting a handbag.
I just opened a pringles can and want to share. Please comment how many you took and I'll update the count
Pringles left: 100
I took 1, then another 3 said “that’s enough” then came back for another 7 and scurried off.
I will gingerly take a bite out of one
i took 6 and ate them all in one bite
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Looked at some pictures of myself from last summer, wearing almost the same outfit I'm wearing today, and it's pretty hard to pinpoint what exactly the difference is, but I looked way more androgynous back then HRT truly is magic
Just got the results back for my first bloods since starting E and even though I was pretty sure they were gonna be in the range I want, it's such a boost having the numbers laid out to see!
Also nice to see the dreaded testosterone in retreat.
oo happy for you:3
this day fucking sucks couldnt be worse, i hate being so anxious over the future every 2 days because of bullshit in my life, i just want to leave here, pain
I declare this friday the 13th during pride month our own little halloween.
gonna be hanging out in here for a bit to stay away from the news mega. i need some positivity and not anxiety right now
Don’t worry, nothing ever happens
Trying to cope with my gay little treats as the world crumbles around me
hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!
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Between transphobic in-laws, my broken phone screen, the Iran-Israel War, and general chumpfuckery, this has been a cromulent fuckcrustable of a day. Xia needs drinky.
Death to Israel
They have “preemptively” attacked Iran. Join the news mega for updates
Did Iran say they would do anything in response to this kind of attack before? I can't remember. Will go look at the thread too though o7
Beware. It's pretty doomer 😔
bloom: in a t4t relationship. i feel amazing , she makes me so happy
doom TW dysphoria
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i hate how I look, not even a big shirt hides everything. want to go on t but it's 30 $ from RxAisle. There's no reason to wait but I'm so scared.
It's wonderful that you're in a good relationship with someone so great, happy for you.
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Maybe this isn't helpful, but would layering multiple big shirts maybe work? I'm thinking like big t-shirt and then an open button up like a flannel or something on top. Unfortunately I don't really have experience on this side of things.
Oh and if it maybe helps a little, try to find ways to draw gazes away from the things that make you dysphoric. At least personally that's usually the way I try to frame it in my head, since it makes me fixate less on the tiny things when overall I know others won't notice it.
weather is very hot (80 degrees) so idk Abt the shirt layering.
Layers of loose and thin linen can be nice in hot weather, because they move air about.
That's true, more of a non-summer thing. Although, depending on the type of shirt it can simulate a bit of wind, especially light breathable fabrics can feel nice like that.
padded sports bra my beloved dysphoria destroyer
They're so nice I love them
Ideal transfem bras tbh
Seeing a quote from RGG on why you never play yakuza in the yakuza games seems to be just a policy they had and keep. Other than dead souls for majima it pretty much tracks for all the games and I guess the name like a dragon makes so much sense now.
So many basic femme things I'm behind on. Not only have I been slacking on voice training, but I've also never learned how to do that thing where you flip in the air and land on an enemy's shoulders and snap their necks with your thighs. What have I been doing all this time
Little known fact, we usually don't talk about it, but that flip is actually innate. You just gotta open your third eye to immediately understand how to do it, no training necessary.
Oh that makes sense. Now I need training on opening my third eye
Wearing a mask is the difference between getting “sir”’d or “darling”’d by the takeaway guy. (At least on days where I haven’t shaved)
fucking pissed, apparently if i want to watch Harvest im going to have to get a mubi subscription bcs i cant find it to pirate online.
maybe they do free trials idk, if not eh it is what it is
read the "eh it is what it is " in the "Dumbledore said calmly" voice
Started prog recently, shit has fucked me up ;-; . Been spending a bunch of time jsut feeling like shit and depressed, crying in bed for hours. It sucks. When do I get used to this shit so it isn't so mentally turbulent
When I started estrogen, I was crying a lot because it was like a mental barrier was lifted and repressed emotions could just flow out. It made me able to cry at like, anything, at romance movies, at sad moments in video games, at silly cat pictures. It was cathartic.
This is just like someone put my emotions into a jar and shook it before smashing it on the ground uaaaagggggghhhh ;-;
prog had me fucked up emotionally for a couple months but it evened out and was totally worth it, if it helps. i think it takes 3 months for it to fully like, come up to right levels and stabilise in your system.
Okay, that makes sense. Yeag I heard from some other trans women that it takes some time to even out, and the first few weeks are the worst. I met someone who apparently takes it one week on one week off. I'll need to find a regimen that works and keeps things manageable.
That sounds rough, prog just made me super horny after E kinda took that away (which was very nice for the time).
yeah I've been wondering if it would have an affect on my libido but instead it's just... mood ;-;