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so who is playin deltarune? i finished it through chapter 4 and now i'm gonna get both types of run in the can so i can pretend i'm not back to waiting a year for the next part. how bout those new secret bosses? how bout that damn

spoilerroaring knight?

it's nice to have parts of this game be as hard as sands undertale.

also, susie is my favorite, she's precious, everyone drop your favorite susie moments in the comments


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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 1 points 10 minutes ago* (last edited 6 minutes ago) (1 children)

Entering my punished Xia arc this weekend… (CW transphobia)…by driving 6 hours from the cosmopolitan city to the regional town I grew up in, to smooth the egos of my parents in law in person, my phone has died today from being dropped a second time, so I’ll have to get a temp one tomorrow, I’m staying in a mediocre motel so they can have “space”, I’ve already been eye-balled by a youth en route who looked like he wanted to hate crime me.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 2 points 3 minutes ago

I make it sound like a cattle station in nowhere, it’s a fuckin’ tree change tourist trap.

Also dropping my phone twice juggling bags, first as tragedy second as farce, once I get it fixed I’m getting a handbag.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 3 points 51 minutes ago* (last edited 51 minutes ago) (4 children)

I just opened a pringles can and want to share. Please comment how many you took and I'll update the count

Pringles left: 100

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 1 points 9 minutes ago

I took 1, then another 3 said “that’s enough” then came back for another 7 and scurried off.

[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 1 points 22 minutes ago

I will gingerly take a bite out of one

[–] mendiCAN@hexbear.net 1 points 24 minutes ago

i took 6 and ate them all in one bite

[–] buh@hexbear.net 1 points 38 minutes ago
[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 3 points 1 hour ago

Looked at some pictures of myself from last summer, wearing almost the same outfit I'm wearing today, and it's pretty hard to pinpoint what exactly the difference is, but I looked way more androgynous back then doggirl-shock HRT truly is magic

[–] BtownNobody@hexbear.net 6 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

Just got the results back for my first bloods since starting E and even though I was pretty sure they were gonna be in the range I want, it's such a boost having the numbers laid out to see! doggirl-happy

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 1 points 7 minutes ago

Also nice to see the dreaded testosterone in retreat.

[–] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 2 points 1 hour ago

oo happy for you:3

[–] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago

this day fucking sucks couldnt be worse, i hate being so anxious over the future every 2 days because of bullshit in my life, i just want to leave here, pain

[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 8 points 3 hours ago

I declare this friday the 13th during pride month our own little halloween.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

gonna be hanging out in here for a bit to stay away from the news mega. i need some positivity and not anxiety right now blob-no-thoughts

[–] buh@hexbear.net 2 points 1 hour ago

Don’t worry, nothing ever happens

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 10 points 4 hours ago

kitty-birthday-sad Trying to cope with my gay little treats as the world crumbles around me

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 1 points 4 hours ago

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

oscardejarjayes* (6/16 - 6/22)
GayTuckerCarlson* (6/23 - 6/29)
Eco* (6/30 - 7/6)
Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13)
sodium_nitride (7/14 - 7/20)
peanutbuttercupola* (7/21 - 7/27)
BountifulEggnog* (7/28 - 8/3)    

Seryph (8/11 - 8/17)

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 15 points 12 hours ago

Between transphobic in-laws, my broken phone screen, the Iran-Israel War, and general chumpfuckery, this has been a cromulent fuckcrustable of a day. Xia needs drinky.

[–] Z_Poster365@hexbear.net 13 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Death to Israel

They have “preemptively” attacked Iran. Join the news mega for updates

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Did Iran say they would do anything in response to this kind of attack before? I can't remember. Will go look at the thread too though o7

[–] SevenSkalls@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago

Beware. It's pretty doomer 😔

[–] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 12 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

bloom: in a t4t relationship. i feel amazing , she makes me so happy flag-pan-pride flag-agender-pride lets-fucking-go

doom TW dysphoria

spoileri hate how I look, not even a big shirt hides everything. want to go on t but it's 30 $ from RxAisle. There's no reason to wait but I'm so scared.

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

It's wonderful that you're in a good relationship with someone so great, happy for you.

spoilerMaybe this isn't helpful, but would layering multiple big shirts maybe work? I'm thinking like big t-shirt and then an open button up like a flannel or something on top. Unfortunately I don't really have experience on this side of things.

Oh and if it maybe helps a little, try to find ways to draw gazes away from the things that make you dysphoric. At least personally that's usually the way I try to frame it in my head, since it makes me fixate less on the tiny things when overall I know others won't notice it.

[–] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 4 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

weather is very hot (80 degrees) so idk Abt the shirt layering.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 6 points 12 hours ago

Layers of loose and thin linen can be nice in hot weather, because they move air about.

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 13 hours ago

That's true, more of a non-summer thing. Although, depending on the type of shirt it can simulate a bit of wind, especially light breathable fabrics can feel nice like that.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

padded sports bra my beloved dysphoria destroyer

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 6 points 12 hours ago

They're so nice I love them

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 15 hours ago

Ideal transfem bras tbh

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 3 points 12 hours ago

Seeing a quote from RGG on why you never play yakuza in the yakuza games seems to be just a policy they had and keep. Other than dead souls for majima it pretty much tracks for all the games and I guess the name like a dragon makes so much sense now.

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 17 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

So many basic femme things I'm behind on. Not only have I been slacking on voice training, but I've also never learned how to do that thing where you flip in the air and land on an enemy's shoulders and snap their necks with your thighs. What have I been doing all this time

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Little known fact, we usually don't talk about it, but that flip is actually innate. You just gotta open your third eye to immediately understand how to do it, no training necessary.

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 6 points 15 hours ago

Oh that makes sense. Now I need training on opening my third eye catgirl-flop

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 11 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

That flip thing has come in clutch tbh, so I'd prioritize that

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 14 points 18 hours ago

Wearing a mask is the difference between getting “sir”’d or “darling”’d by the takeaway guy. (At least on days where I haven’t shaved)

[–] BattleshipPokemon@hexbear.net 4 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

fucking pissed, apparently if i want to watch Harvest im going to have to get a mubi subscription bcs i cant find it to pirate online.

maybe they do free trials idk, if not eh it is what it is shrug-outta-hecks

[–] Horse@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 14 hours ago

i think i found it here but the quality is terrible

[–] BattleshipPokemon@hexbear.net 4 points 14 hours ago

read the "eh it is what it is shrug-outta-hecks" in the "Dumbledore said calmly" voice

[–] blashork@hexbear.net 13 points 18 hours ago (3 children)

Started prog recently, shit has fucked me up ;-; . Been spending a bunch of time jsut feeling like shit and depressed, crying in bed for hours. It sucks. When do I get used to this shit so it isn't so mentally turbulent doggirl-gloom

When I started estrogen, I was crying a lot because it was like a mental barrier was lifted and repressed emotions could just flow out. It made me able to cry at like, anything, at romance movies, at sad moments in video games, at silly cat pictures. It was cathartic.

This is just like someone put my emotions into a jar and shook it before smashing it on the ground uaaaagggggghhhh ;-;

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 10 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

prog had me fucked up emotionally for a couple months but it evened out and was totally worth it, if it helps. i think it takes 3 months for it to fully like, come up to right levels and stabilise in your system.

[–] blashork@hexbear.net 4 points 12 hours ago

Okay, that makes sense. Yeag I heard from some other trans women that it takes some time to even out, and the first few weeks are the worst. I met someone who apparently takes it one week on one week off. I'll need to find a regimen that works and keeps things manageable.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 10 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

That sounds rough, prog just made me super horny after E kinda took that away (which was very nice for the time).

[–] blashork@hexbear.net 4 points 12 hours ago

yeah I've been wondering if it would have an affect on my libido but instead it's just... mood ;-;

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