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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

came out to a friend the other day and we played Stardew Valley together and she said my name and oh wow it feels so nice when people call me a girl name

[–] EcoMaowist@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Injection #3 today; hopefully things start happening soon!

possible changes !?!?!My chest has been a bit more sensitive and sore, so it's either because I sleep on my stomach, the E, or both (I really have to stop sleeping on my stomach).

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[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (3 children)

holy hanna this mega is popping

I got shitfaced and had a good time with my friends last night :) But I spent the whole day today hung over and allergy-y :/

The friend I was hoping to "come out" to didn't make it, but I'm feeling more confident for next time I see her (about taking E and official new pronouns, she already knows I'm trans, I've been questioning for years)

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

hope everyone's doing well trans-heart

[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

I've gotten very far into my physical transition since last summer, and recently I've made some more progress with getting my parents to understand this whole trans thing. But everything else in my life has just gotten worse, sadly.

Rant about personal struggles, transphobia and lonelinessI feel like I'm never going to get a job, I'm struggling to stay motivated for anything thanks to my ADHD, I've grown very distant with the few friends I have, and I have no idea how I'm gonna come out to my extended family. The isolation I feel from all of this is really starting to take a toll on me. There's also fact that my brother is a techbro chud that thinks trans people are all just mentally ill. Wish I could cut him out of my life, but that's difficult to do when he still lives with my parents, who I very much care about and want to stay in contact with. This shit sucks transshork-sad

Despite all of this I feel hopeful about my future. Gonna try to join a local queer org soon, see if I can't get to know more trans people that way. Also looking into getting therapy, as well as trying out a different ADHD medication since ritalin isn't doing anything for me.

[–] HelltakerHomosexual@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

we must surpass the news mega

ignore my news mega posting i am not a traitor that must just be a bug ignore it

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

ahh yis first

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (9 children)
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[–] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

Learning to do makeup and nails is so much fun. i just did my nails with almost no errors 💃💅

My partner is struggling with my new self but is being loving and supportive and it makes me feel very special.

She's taking me out tonight in full femme for the first time and i'm so excited to be out with her and not by myself.

You all have been so special and supportive to me in all of this i really appreciate y'all a lot 💚

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[–] Zuzak@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

How do people handle names with job applications? In the past I've just used my legal/dead name but now I'm using my chosen name on top and adding a note on my resume of my legal name and that I'm trans. It's a little awkward and I'm worried about discrimination, but idk how best to approach it.

For context I've mostly been working blue coller in warehouses or doing data entry or light technical repair type stuff, and I'm applying in blue areas in the US.

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (5 children)

i personally wouldn't disclose my legal name until I was like, hired and had to do so for payroll or whatever. your choice but I felt more comfortable just only going by my chosen name immediately when it came to that stuff and wouldn't bother disclosing I was trans at such an early stage of the process either. certainly not something I'd put right on the CV. I don't live in the US so I'm not really familiar with the specific hiring climate you're in though, but I would think that would be an unusual thing to do

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

There are now only 2 ways to make our report response time faster:

  • Making literally everyone a mod

  • Robo-transgenders that patrol and purge reactionaries on sight online and irl popuko-gun

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[–] catter@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

Been crying soooooooo much more lately aubrey-cry-2

Despite that, I feel like vomiting all those sad emotions has made me find some joy again. Things are very difficult in my relationship because being trans will end it, but I have more support now than I ever have! I guess I just need to decide whether I'm "trans enough" for transitioning to be worth it

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (4 children)

I wasn't made to have responsibilities

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

up early before work, so I'm playing more Celeste madeline-smug

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[–] EcoMaowist@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

CAN WE HIT 1,000 COMMENTS FOR MAXIMUM PRIDE?

[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Jesyus fucjing cnhrist I almost girl fainted in my girl bathroom just now my right ear is fucjikgn girl ringing shit

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[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

Yesterday I had the worst shower possible, I go in, put hot water, realize midway through that I have no soap, no shampoo, no sponge, so I just threw hot water on my body for like 30 minutes and wore my clothes

[–] Lenins_Cat_Reincarnated@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (7 children)

breast talkSometimes I love my breasts and sometimes I hate them. I wonder what taking T will do to these feelings. I don’t really want to lose them right now but I also want to pass as man. Weird?

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

Waiting in pre-op now.

If you don't hear from me within 24 hours, I legit died~ ✨💖✨

Edit: hit 900 for me

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[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Lots of straight people at the lesbian bar.. just got asked by some dude if I was in line for the men's room. Very cool

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[–] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Torrenting I Saw The TV Glow for tonight, finally feel like I can fit in here

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (8 children)

Transphobic clichéResigned to the fact that I'll have to constantly explain to cis people the rest of my life that I wasn't "born in the wrong body", I was assigned the wrong gender at birth.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (35 children)

clothing dysphoria (envy?) discussion (if that makes sense)I probably over spoiler but ohnoes

Its really weird how I can feel... I don't know if its dysphoria or gender envy but I really want to wear girl shorts instead of guy shorts. Its 6 inches of fabric brain, why is that such a big deal? Like really wanting to wear a skirt makes sense because there's nothing like it in normal guy clothing, but shorts? Really? That's what I feel a deep longing in my heart to change?

Also how weird is that? Its not part of my body but... I don't know. It feels a lot like how I want to shave my legs, yaknow? But that's part of me. I guess they're both gender presentation things. I don't know where I'm going with this or if I'm making sense so I'll just cut it off here.

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Trans megathreads popping off quokka-smile

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[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (10 children)

I WASN'T LYING WHEN I SAID BIGGER AND MORE PRIDEFUL THAN EVER BEFORE sicko-power trans-hydra lets-fucking-go

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[–] Blockocheese@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I misread the title as "trans meetup" and was so ready to fedpost

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (17 children)

Whenever I feel like I'm "faking it" I just think of all the hexbears who feel the same way, and then the feeling dissolves.

This place is powerful

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[–] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago

I don't pass, but people are complimenting my hair. Today a cashier asked me for my haircare routine, which was very flattering

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago

⚠️To the mods who unpinned the mega⚠️

I have one message for you:

This aggression will not stand.

I'm the only one standing between you and an undulating mass of hormonal super soldiers.

I'm willing to come to the table, but even my patience has its limits.

For your sake, make the right choice.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (1 children)

working on bringing up them post numbers by saying:

party-blob THIGHS GO SQUISH!party-blob THIGHS GO SQUISH!party-blob THIGHS GO SQUISH!party-blob THIGHS GO SQUISH!party-blob THIGHS GO SQUISH!party-blob THIGHS GO SQUISH!party-blob THIGHS GO SQUISH!party-blob THIGHS GO SQUISH!party-blob THIGHS GO SQUISH!party-blob THIGHS GO SQUISH!party-blob THIGHS GO SQUISH!

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[–] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago

Its the middle of winter I'm tired of 'pride' bring on wrath it sounds cosier

[–] Wake@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (6 children)

I keep getting gender euphoria from the weirdest things. Yesterday I had to wear these fireproof/cut proof arm sleeve things for work and my first thought was how good they made my hands look. They were like a pair of cute heather green arm warmers. So here I was admiring how nice my hands looked and thinking about how cute things would look with my nails painted. All the while I'm surrounded by a bunch of steel worker dudes.

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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (10 children)

Shout out to all my autistic trans peeps!

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (20 children)

What is everyone’s favorite plushie? Mine is a little brown bat!

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