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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago (7 children)

my therapist asked me who I marry in stardew valley and told me who they go for

I feel like we know so much more about each other now

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[–] Des@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago (9 children)

elon's estranged daughter is cool as fuck.

she sounds like she posts here

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[–] rayne@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Yesterday was my first full day since starting HRT Friday. And it was mostly amazing! Chronic pain symptoms are way down. It was 90% the tension of not being myself. Being in high alert trauma mode for literally decades.

trauma triggersBut my trauma did get triggered yesterday. Went to a beach to hang out with some friends in a more conservative neighborhood. A lot of macho energy and drinking. I may have felt safer boy moding, but then again, I boymoded for decades in these kinds of situations and still had trauma triggered.

Felt the neck tension return when I walked to the bathroom with my girlfriend. It's still pretty tight but I'm feeling safe now and going to do my morning Qi Gong at the lake... back in my liberal little bubble.

Slept really well (not the norm but hopefully the new norm). I think I was letting go of a lot of things in my sleep.

And I was able to cuddle with my gf all night without the male sex drive driving me nuts in the morning!

Feeling like I'm micro dosing Molly.

Oh... And made some new trans friends yesterday too!

Life is good today. Thanks again comrades for holding space here :)

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[–] Babs@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago

Hey trans thread, I just helped a gal amend her birth certificate. Being trans is alright, but helping other trans people? That's the real good shit.

Working a culturally-specific job is like the best move I've ever made for my own emotional wellbeing.

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago (8 children)

Just wanted to post out into the void that being trans fucking rocks actually. transshork-happy

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago (1 children)

getting bottom surgery so i can fulfill my lifelong dream of wearing a packer

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago (4 children)

drinking rum, watching two people on youtube sparring with katanas using longsword techniques and kinda wishing i had a gf

drinking always does this to me, need to stop goddamnit lea-sad

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago

Why can’t I look like an anime dog girl!!?? ooooooooooooooh

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Damn it feels good to be a trans woman 😎

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[–] Starlet@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (8 children)

My breasts have felt sorer and sorer the last few days and today they legit hurt like they used to the first couple months on E, what gives? bocchi-cry I'm over 6 months in now, I thought I was done with the super sore era.

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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

My subscription to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns is still pending, can someone get on it and accept it? /s

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[–] belligerentkitten@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (12 children)

this instance is way better than libshithole i came from

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[–] regularassbitch@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (6 children)

on the other side of another night on shrooms, this time with one friend and fallout london. i found myself using wasd to scroll on this page and realized my brain was still fucked up

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[–] regularassbitch@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago

feeling good. glad to have people around me who actually see and understand who i am and what i'm doing

[–] PaX@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

friend-visitor-1 So now that there's endocrine disrupting chemicals everywhere, especially in the affordable food, it's like free HRT right? Haha

No, they just make you fat and tired all the time. They also give you cancer friend-visitor-4

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[–] Babs@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Need to find a local trans discord that isn't so horny all the time. Like compliments are pretty nice but I have a bf!

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (4 children)

sometimes you stay up till 3 am and that's fine because it was fun

nn niko-sleep

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[–] rainn@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Even if I feel like I'm bottling things up I again revert to lurking and not saying anything

Even then, I can't externalize without being very serious, cause "silly" is childish and childish is bad in my head

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[–] milistanaccount09@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (5 children)

the amount of dating drama the heterosexual can get into pales in comparison to the humble polyamorous trans girl

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[–] silent_water@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (4 children)

wife: I'm happy to be alive! what did you do to me?? ahhhhhhh

I can fix her, but it actually worked

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Y'all are dming eachother??? I've been using this site for like 4 years between different accounts and I think I've given or received a dm... three times.

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[–] naom3@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (3 children)
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[–] milk_thief@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Tired of internet arguments. I hate the culture that makes everything feel like one-up-manship

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Was it a huge tactical error to be honest with the kkkanada gubmint about my gender on a disability application? I just realised I have no idea if this will disadvantage me or whatever, or if it even matters. Like, are they gonna be fuckers?

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (13 children)

So trans people having a higher incidence of Autism and mental disorders is legit right? My therapist gave me one of those eval questionnaires for OCD and apparently I do be obssessing (not so much compulsing, although she said it is still possible to have one and not the other)

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[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 21 points 1 month ago (17 children)

If I slowly transition silently like a frog in a pot of boiling water, do you think the cishets would notice?

What if I played it off as something that just kinda happened on its own, like I was the last one to notice?

If nothing else it'd be a good gag.

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[–] What_Religion_R_They@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I was crying about boob growth and posting on certain forums that this place doesnt like about how i can still boymode in { muslim country } without a bra. today ive worn a shitty tshirt and realized that i cannot boymode without a bra

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[–] SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (4 children)

The transfem urge to take over the world.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (1 children)

One of these days my gf is going to slip up and I’m going to have to have sex with Shadow the Hedgehog madeline-sadeline

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (2 children)

BLEGH I woke up all SWEATY and I posted comments in the WRONG MEGA, shameful and unpleasant kitty-birthday-sad

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Went out with my hair done and a girl top, And when I caught my reflection, sometimes instead of a guy, I saw an ugly chick

This is progress, folks lea-happy

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[–] Shinhoshi@lemmygrad.ml 21 points 1 month ago (17 children)
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[–] rayne@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (4 children)

First appointment with the clinic is this morning! I'm excited and nervous but I think it will be good. The clinic staff was very good when I scheduled the appointment and I think most of my nerves are thinking I need to come out to a heterocis dr. Justify how I'm queer enough to need hormones.

Which isn't what is happening. The place is staffed with a lot of queer folks. And uses an informed consent model when it comes to hormones.

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[–] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (8 children)

Reading some article, googling a women, oh she's trans, oh she,s my age, oh we came out at the same time, oh she's loved and supported by her community, oh she's been given countless opportunities because of coming out, oh gee, oh no

anyway i might shower for the first time this week, protip dont read the news, do not turn on the television

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I packed curry for lunch and I get to eat it in 10 minutes lfg

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[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (4 children)

fuck I think I'm more mentally ill than I thought wtf

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[–] regularassbitch@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (7 children)

it's just grosswhat if we held hands 😳 under the stall door 🥺 while one of us was shitting 🥰

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (22 children)
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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (13 children)

I've barely contributed to this thread today and that's kitty-birthday-sad

anyway, today was a great day

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (11 children)

>wake up

>hair is still curly

sicko-fem BLESSED BY SCRUNCHIES AND POWERED BY JOJOBA OIL, CURLY HAIR SUPREMACY sicko-fem

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