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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 22 points 9 months ago

Why can’t I look like an anime dog girl!!?? ooooooooooooooh

[–] Babs@hexbear.net 22 points 9 months ago

Hey trans thread, I just helped a gal amend her birth certificate. Being trans is alright, but helping other trans people? That's the real good shit.

Working a culturally-specific job is like the best move I've ever made for my own emotional wellbeing.

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 22 points 9 months ago (8 children)

Just wanted to post out into the void that being trans fucking rocks actually. transshork-happy

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 22 points 9 months ago (11 children)

navel gazing, cw discussion of sex related stuff
spoiler I'm having a whole day today, a lot going on internally.

I guess maybe it's being NB (again) or else I've had some kind of internal seeing-the-light moment, but I have pleasant, weird and new perceptions of myself and my expressions and a lot of things I do.

If you asked me six months ago what I thought of being touched below the belt, I would probably have said "don't even fucking think about it". Now though, I can honestly say that I have had sex without any real dysphoria, which in itself feels weird. I've been a dysphoric little bitch my entire life, and now it's just... fine? I did not feel the need to instantly pull up the covers or whatever afterword. I'm not convinced that my junk bothers me in sexual terms. Cool?? Could I have spent the last decade not suffering if I'd just forsaken binary genders?????? Did it really have that much of an impact on my self-perception and everything??? I guess so...

To be fair, part of this is all that excruciating trauma processing I did a couple megathreads ago =) My mind and its stream of consciousness will still float away and think irrelevant things if I let it, but having put in all the work to actively rein that shit in means I can think clearly about whatever is currently going on, ask myself what I want, what I'm gonna do. I feel ridiculously clear headed now; whereas before I would barely speak, I have a lot less trouble expressing what I want. Maybe I will be ready to do something funny and kinky at some point?

TL;DR crush yeag :::

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 22 points 9 months ago (7 children)

my therapist asked me who I marry in stardew valley and told me who they go for

I feel like we know so much more about each other now

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[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 22 points 9 months ago

Damn I'm really just walking out the house like not trying and people talking about how cute my outfits are. Sorry I can't help it I'm just really cute πŸ˜”πŸ‘―

[–] GlueBear@hexbear.net 22 points 9 months ago (12 children)

Posting here so you guys and gals can win, I hate the news mega sm. angery

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[–] Des@hexbear.net 22 points 9 months ago (9 children)

elon's estranged daughter is cool as fuck.

she sounds like she posts here

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Damn it feels good to be a trans woman 😎

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[–] Starlet@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (2 children)
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[–] belligerentkitten@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (12 children)

this instance is way better than libshithole i came from

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[–] milk_thief@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (4 children)

Tired of internet arguments. I hate the culture that makes everything feel like one-up-manship

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (1 children)

One of these days my gf is going to slip up and I’m going to have to have sex with Shadow the Hedgehog madeline-sadeline

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (13 children)

chat, what color should I dye my hair? ridiculous colors only, I’m not going to dye my hair a natural color. I’m aspiring to [brightly colored hair] and pronouns.

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[–] Shinhoshi@lemmygrad.ml 21 points 9 months ago (17 children)
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[–] milistanaccount09@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (5 children)

the amount of dating drama the heterosexual can get into pales in comparison to the humble polyamorous trans girl

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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

My subscription to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns is still pending, can someone get on it and accept it? /s

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[–] Babs@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (6 children)

Need to find a local trans discord that isn't so horny all the time. Like compliments are pretty nice but I have a bf!

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[–] rainn@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Even if I feel like I'm bottling things up I again revert to lurking and not saying anything

Even then, I can't externalize without being very serious, cause "silly" is childish and childish is bad in my head

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (8 children)

My breasts have felt sorer and sorer the last few days and today they legit hurt like they used to the first couple months on E, what gives? bocchi-cry I'm over 6 months in now, I thought I was done with the super sore era.

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[–] silent_water@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (4 children)

wife: I'm happy to be alive! what did you do to me?? ahhhhhhh

I can fix her, but it actually worked

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[–] regularassbitch@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago

feeling good. glad to have people around me who actually see and understand who i am and what i'm doing

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (4 children)

sometimes you stay up till 3 am and that's fine because it was fun

nn niko-sleep

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (13 children)

So trans people having a higher incidence of Autism and mental disorders is legit right? My therapist gave me one of those eval questionnaires for OCD and apparently I do be obssessing (not so much compulsing, although she said it is still possible to have one and not the other)

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (2 children)

BLEGH I woke up all SWEATY and I posted comments in the WRONG MEGA, shameful and unpleasant kitty-birthday-sad

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (4 children)

Y'all are dming eachother??? I've been using this site for like 4 years between different accounts and I think I've given or received a dm... three times.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

Was it a huge tactical error to be honest with the kkkanada gubmint about my gender on a disability application? I just realised I have no idea if this will disadvantage me or whatever, or if it even matters. Like, are they gonna be fuckers?

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[–] naom3@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (3 children)
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[–] regularassbitch@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (6 children)

on the other side of another night on shrooms, this time with one friend and fallout london. i found myself using wasd to scroll on this page and realized my brain was still fucked up

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[–] SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (4 children)

The transfem urge to take over the world.

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 21 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Went out with my hair done and a girl top, And when I caught my reflection, sometimes instead of a guy, I saw an ugly chick

This is progress, folks lea-happy

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[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 21 points 9 months ago (17 children)

If I slowly transition silently like a frog in a pot of boiling water, do you think the cishets would notice?

What if I played it off as something that just kinda happened on its own, like I was the last one to notice?

If nothing else it'd be a good gag.

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 20 points 9 months ago (22 children)
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[–] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 20 points 9 months ago (8 children)

Reading some article, googling a women, oh she's trans, oh she,s my age, oh we came out at the same time, oh she's loved and supported by her community, oh she's been given countless opportunities because of coming out, oh gee, oh no

anyway i might shower for the first time this week, protip dont read the news, do not turn on the television

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 20 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (11 children)

I have a confession, I don't know any of you lol

I don't read your usernames, I don't even look at your pfps. If I start to recognize you by your pfp and you change it, you're like a new person to me.

I feel like I've repeated myself a few times but that's cause I don't know who I'm talking to. As far as I know, you're a brand new person every time unless we're in replies and even then, if there's a new comment by you and I replied to the new one - I dunno who you are lol. Sorry if I repeated myself to you but I've been doing this for like 4 years and I don't anticipate anything changing

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[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 20 points 9 months ago (4 children)

fuck I think I'm more mentally ill than I thought wtf

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[–] rayne@hexbear.net 20 points 9 months ago (4 children)

First appointment with the clinic is this morning! I'm excited and nervous but I think it will be good. The clinic staff was very good when I scheduled the appointment and I think most of my nerves are thinking I need to come out to a heterocis dr. Justify how I'm queer enough to need hormones.

Which isn't what is happening. The place is staffed with a lot of queer folks. And uses an informed consent model when it comes to hormones.

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 20 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I packed curry for lunch and I get to eat it in 10 minutes lfg

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