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Like I don't really use any other social media, but sometimes (like this past week) I venture outside of my hexbear bubble and I browse twitter, or reddit, or instagram, or tiktok, and holy shit I just browse those websites for a minute or two and feel worse about myself, worse about the world, it honestly seems like everyone on those sites is completely insufferable and every post is designed in some CIA laboratory to make me irrationally angry. Like look, sometimes we can all get annoyed at each other here, and I am no exception to that, and nowhere is perfect, but wow this place is 1000% better than like the majority of the internet, I honestly don't know how people go through life at this point browsing the regular internet.

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[–] Beaver@hexbear.net 80 points 5 days ago (2 children)

The ironic effect of Hexbear has been to significantly reduce my time on the Internet, because almost everywhere else seems so shitty by comparison.

[–] Inui@hexbear.net 30 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

My time spent sitting in Discord calls or scrolling for hours is significantly lower recently because somewhat ironically, the quality of posts here (outside of bad posting, DOWN with beanis) is higher so it takes less for me to be satisfied and logout for a while. If not higher quality, less mentally draining or bad vibe generating. Has been good for my mental because I've spent more time doing things I actually enjoy.

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[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 34 points 5 days ago

Same, I don't use reddit-logo much anymore because I have Hexbear and Hexbear is so so so much more chill.

[–] red_stapler@hexbear.net 68 points 5 days ago (5 children)

This place really feels like the old internet.

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 60 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Without the rampant racism, homophobia, ableism and sexism (for the most part)

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 34 points 5 days ago

It really does and I either we could convert to an old school bbs forum style

[–] Vampire@hexbear.net 23 points 5 days ago

The highest compliment

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[–] Hohsia@hexbear.net 64 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

The more time I spend on the internet, the more I’m convinced that it’s so much more useless than we think

This feels like the internet away from the internet, I think because it gives me late 2010 vibes

Best described as the misfits that find each other at a party and go smoke imo. God I miss that shit, we’re in such a cyberpunk age

[–] anarchoilluminati@hexbear.net 49 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Best described as the misfits that find each other at a party and go smoke imo.

I would always end up in that lowkey kickback room at big parties in college.

Hexbear really is that room and the internet is one huge frat rager.

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 34 points 5 days ago

That metaphor speaks to me.

[–] rootsbreadandmakka@hexbear.net 41 points 5 days ago (1 children)

the misfits that find each other at a party and go smoke imo. God I miss that shit, we’re in such a cyberpunk age

Every day I cry for this shit. My life used to be just sitting around in the woods smoking all day. Now I just sit at the computer staring at the bleakest shit imaginable (outside of hexbear). Retvrn to stonerdom

[–] Hohsia@hexbear.net 35 points 5 days ago (1 children)

doomer

I’m afraid it’s just life as you age (when you live in the decades where weeks happen era)

Like, think about it. Do you think a Lenin equivalent would have allowed Silicon Valley to get this far?

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 32 points 5 days ago

Do you think a Lenin equivalent would have allowed Silicon Valley to get this far?

lenin-crush-capitalism sicko-wistful

[–] anarchoilluminati@hexbear.net 24 points 5 days ago

Best described as the misfits that find each other at a party and go smoke imo.

I would always end up in that lowkey kickback room at big parties in college.

Hexbear really is that room and the internet is one huge frat rager.

[–] 12022081631@hexbear.net 59 points 5 days ago (3 children)

its my best kept little secret--- like a little fairy door or that hole where him henson kept the fraggles. except inside this hole its mostly queers and commies. christ!!! its a good thing somebody put them there or i would never find them in that mess they call "the world"

[–] take_five_seconds@hexbear.net 44 points 5 days ago (1 children)

it's funny, i've had coworkers ask me about where i go on the internet (cuz i am a based communist ofc) and i show them the lil bear website on my black mirror and they just kinda blink and go "oh ok" like this place is so subtle it's great

[–] 12022081631@hexbear.net 40 points 5 days ago (1 children)

(thinking) "this site doesnt have any jobs on it or porn either, ill ask somebody else"

[–] take_five_seconds@hexbear.net 32 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)
[–] EelBolshevikism@hexbear.net 31 points 5 days ago (3 children)

how do you post with the exact cadence to emit a kind of Dril incandesence

[–] 12022081631@hexbear.net 25 points 5 days ago (3 children)

i resent this post i have put a lot of craft and personality into drowning all my posts i don't like with exclamation marks trying to make them hit

[–] EelBolshevikism@hexbear.net 22 points 5 days ago (1 children)

if the dril incandesence is undesired than i have bad news about this response

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[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 44 points 5 days ago

This place legit motivates me to improve myself and I can't think of another online space as mind-opening or conducive to healthy discussion. The reputation this place gets as some kind of toxic shitpit is totally unwarranted.

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 48 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The internet is crashing all around us while we're like queen-ohoho

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 26 points 5 days ago

Reject bazinga.

Embrace Queen thought.

what is queen thought?

[–] Commiejones@hexbear.net 41 points 5 days ago (5 children)

Hexbear is one of the few good spaces on the internet

There are others?

[–] polskilumalo@lemmygrad.ml 51 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Lemmygrad. We exist :kitty-cri:

[–] Commiejones@hexbear.net 23 points 4 days ago (3 children)

oh yup! I forget that it is a separate space because I access it through Hexbear.

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[–] Evilphd666@hexbear.net 20 points 4 days ago

they-were-comrades love our lemmygrad comrades.

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[–] dkr567@hexbear.net 21 points 4 days ago

lemmygrad seems great whenever I browser via all instead of local from time to time.

[–] hypercracker@hexbear.net 14 points 4 days ago

Mastodon is not bad although it is Going Through It right now about how if you’re a person of color the platform is absolutely terrible because it doesn’t have any safety features. Specifically it’s the case that nobody sees the exact same set of replies to a given post so racists can hide their posts targeting PoC and the clueless white people don’t think racism exists. Then default to their midwit FOSS-splaining “if you don’t like it open a PR” as though the mastodon project hasn’t had a million discussions on this topic and leadership decided it isn’t worth solving.

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[–] FunkyStuff@hexbear.net 46 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Hey thanks, I'm trying to do my part to ruin it myself. beanis

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[–] TawnyFroggy@hexbear.net 36 points 5 days ago

Sometimes I try to go to reddit to talk about my special interests but holy shit everyone there is so fucking dumb. It's not even politics sometimes, just terminal reddit brain and absolutely 0 media literacy. Hexbear is also the only "social media" site I've been a part of that isn't just constantly enshittified.

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 40 points 5 days ago

Y'all keep me sane. I love this place so much. It's so nice to not have to deal with shitty fascist white racist liberal genocide apologists.

[–] iByteABit@hexbear.net 39 points 5 days ago

Good post, I can't explain how much I love this place. Anywhere else on the internet it takes such little time until you come across some liberal/fascist take that tries to push the Overton window all the way to the Third Reich, this is a safe haven I can't do without anymore. Lemmy being a great platform also contributes a lot, but its all of you that make it what it could never be otherwise. I'm gonna really miss you people if this site gets fedposting

[–] Philosoraptor@hexbear.net 38 points 5 days ago (2 children)

It really has the pre-2008 niche BBS feel to it. Very cozy and I love it.

[–] Breath_Of_The_Snake@hexbear.net 20 points 5 days ago (2 children)

If this is what BBS was like, I’m officially a return type for that specific thing. Way better than what is currently the norm.

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[–] Flutterpuff@hexbear.net 19 points 4 days ago

I like this site so much that I made an account despite not posting much anyway, I just love listening to you comrades, you guys are the realest people I have ever seen on the anonymous internet. rat-salute-2

Took me time and courage to write this comment, I should probably go and touch grass now.

[–] SoyViking@hexbear.net 18 points 4 days ago

Nobody is trying to sell you something

There are no Nazis

There are no smug liberals

There is no homophobia and transphobia

The only racism there is is the background radiation you get from growing up in a racist society and even that is being minimised

There are almost no debate lords

There are nobody bragging about their perfect lives

Is Hexbear even a proper online community?

[–] REgon@hexbear.net 30 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

I went on reddit-logo recently and it's just awful. I deleted my account so now I just get the common frontpage and it's just full of stale memes and "DAE le DRUMPF EVERYBODY???" All their political discourse is just

CW: Bigotry
"Orange man ugly and fat and gay and fat and ugly and his wife is ugly and he is cheating on her with an ugly woman and he's fat and gay and also he looks like a lady hahahaha we're the rational left, both sides are bad! Communism on paper vuvuzela 100 billion facism Trump ugly gay Harris funny and cool and good don't you understand we have to be rational when we commit genocide and trump is stupid and ugly and fat?"

Could have given me an aneurism

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[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 24 points 4 days ago (1 children)

For a POC like myself this is one of the few places on the net that doesn't have seething or overt hatred for my kind

[–] frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Aight chief i'mma ask you to make a habit of being a lil more specific with your description of self, since you've got a three month account here: "For a POC"/"as a POC" never looks right, and makes me think the person saying it is cosplaying. Just my rec from me to you, if you Black, claim it with your whole chest. If it's another nationality that a peckerwood would first clock as Black, Pacific, or Indigeous, claim it with your whole chest. Get me?

[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 16 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)
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[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 37 points 5 days ago

This is my only social networking anything. I like it here most of the time, and yes, it does feel free of the increasingly enshittified (and chuddified) state of Reddit and related monopolies that have swallowed up pretty much all populated forums that used to exist.

[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 31 points 5 days ago

This place is great. I love my comrades meow-hug

[–] ButtBidet@hexbear.net 26 points 5 days ago

Sometimes I'll still log into Facebook. I have the Purity add-on, which deletes all the unwanted bullshit, and I still feel myself get yet more liberal with all the genetic "we just need to vote harder" posts I'm seeing. Also there's no content warning for dead animal pics (non vegans here: we really appreciate it).

Lots of terrible mod decisions done by liberals and fascists have driven me off of social media. The time I got a ban for arguing with a guy who was posting anti-immigrant and anti-Muslim stuff on reddit-logo was the last straw for me there.

[–] the_itsb@hexbear.net 20 points 4 days ago

✨Hexbear✨

it's magical ❤️ couldn't agree more

[–] take_five_seconds@hexbear.net 26 points 5 days ago

ITS TRUE more and more people are saying it

[–] SeventyTwoTrillion@hexbear.net 11 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

it honestly seems like everyone on those sites is completely insufferable and every post is designed in some CIA laboratory to make me irrationally angry

When you're immersed in that sort of background radiation of liberalism and chuddery you develop a resistance to it, or even the ability to tune it out. So when you go on Hexbear for a long while and your resistances to that sort of thing drop, if you try and go back on Reddit or Twitter or whatever, the little dogwhistles everywhere very quickly get to you and drive you up the wall. To the people on those sites it looks like you're totally overreacting to certain sentences or phrases or words, but you're now educated enough about these sorts of quirks that they instantly raise your blood pressure. I genuinely, physically roll my eyes whenever I see a word like "authoritarian" or "totalitarian" or "regime" now because, thanks to e.g. the Masses, Elites, and Rebels essay, I know what these libs are doing, whereas before, I could just tune it out and keep going. I know that these people are smug nationalist Americans who denounce any attempt to break free from US hegemony, rather than merely a dude harmlessly expressing their opinion on the internet.

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