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Cardiac arrest, also known as Sudden Cardiac Arrest, is when the heart stops beating suddenly. The lack of blood flow to the brain and other organs can cause a person to lose consciousness, become disabled or die if not treated immediately.

The terms β€˜heart attack’ and β€˜cardiac arrest’ are often used interchangeably, but these are two different heart conditions.

A heart attack occurs when there is a blockage in the arteries that stops blood flow in the heart. Due to the lack of blood and oxygen flowing in the heart, the heart muscle tissue will become damaged. Heart attacks can increase the risk for cardiac arrest because heart attacks can alter electrical signals in the heart.

CPR – or Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation – is an emergency lifesaving procedure performed when the heart stops beating. Immediate CPR can double or triple chances of survival after cardiac arrest.

If someone experiences cardiac arrest, they need immediate treatment to increase the flow of oxygen-rich blood to their organs. CPR is the compression over the chest to manually pump a patients heart. Rescue breaths are preformed to provide oxygen to the body.

During CPR, proper hand placement on the lower half of the sternum is crucial. Placing hands over the sternum ensures effective chest compressions directly above the heart, optimizing blood circulation throughout the body.

According to the American Heart Association (AHA), the overall survival rate for out-of-hospital cardiac arrest is around 10%. However, survival rates can be improved if bystander CPR is started immediately. Studies have shown that bystander CPR increases the chances of survival for someone experiencing cardiac arrest. In fact, the AHA reports that survival rates increases to 40% or higher when bystander CPR is performed promptly. The surival rate is between 24% and 40% for those that happen in the hospital, according to the report published online in the Emergency Medicine Journal.

CPR is preformed between 100 - 120 beats per minute. Famously Staying Alive by the Bee Gees is the same beat. A large list of songs with the correct BPM can be found here


cure-for-fascism The American Red Cross gives the following list of steps to asses if CPR is needed and how to preform:

1 CHECK the scene for safety, form an initial impression and use personal protective equipment (PPE)

2 If the person appears unresponsive, CHECK for responsiveness, breathing, life-threatening bleeding or other life-threatening conditions using shout-tap-shout

3 If the person does not respond and is not breathing or only gasping, CALL 9-1-1 and get equipment, or tell someone to do so

4 Kneel beside the person. Place the person on their back on a firm, flat surface

5 The American Red Cross CPR guidelines recommend 100 to 120 chest compressions per minute, 30 at a time. Remember these five points:

Hand position: Two hands centered on the chest

Body position: Shoulders directly over hands; elbows locked

Compression depth: At least 2 inches

Rate of compressions: 100 to 120 per minute

Allow chest to return to normal position after each compression

6

Give 2 breaths

Open the airway to a past-neutral position using the head-tilt/chin-lift technique Pinch the nose shut, take a normal breath, and make complete seal over the person’s mouth with your mouth. Ensure each breath lasts about 1 second and makes the chest rise; allow air to exit before giving the next breath Note: If the 1st breath does not cause the chest to rise, retilt the head and ensure a proper seal before giving the 2nd breath If the 2nd breath does not make the chest rise, an object may be blocking the airway

7 Continue giving sets of 30 chest compressions and 2 breaths. Use an AED as soon as one is available! Minimize interruptions to chest compressions to less than 10 seconds.

Video instructions

Sources:

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/cardiac-arrest

https://cpr.heart.org/en/resources/cpr-facts-and-stats

https://www.mycprcertificationonline.com/blog/cpr-success-rate

Instructional images from the AHS Basic Life Support Manual (2020)

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (2 children)

cw: sexual and the worst post i've ever madecan't spell impregnate without mpreg

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (30 children)

Dumb chronic pain shitMe yesterday: "Dyke lifts dyke lifts lfg, becoming powerful!!! lady-doge Whatsup everybody I'm productive and powerful, today was a good day, lfg"

Me today: "Oooooooough ooooooooooooooh My chest ow fuck my chronic painy nerves, even walking is hard, how joever is it yes-honey-left "

Wow I feel so fuckin bad, I am not moving today. Cooked, washed.

Update: after taking the usual bullshit pill mix it's still kinda painful but I can move okay. Not like last night where I could barely get up to walk.

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (17 children)
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[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (18 children)

So this isnt super trans related but it's been like 10 months on estrogen and in some ways I actually feel stronger. I started climbing and can now deadlift like 300 pounds somewhat easily, something I couldn't do while on testosterone (I also didn't climb though). My bench press has barely suffered, I used to bench like 85 pounds dumbbells for 5, I can do 70 pound dumbbells for 8 reps... My squat is steadily rising also. Idk lol I'm a bit surprised honestly

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago

misgenderingsoypoint-2 Who's that? Is that your brother?

yes-chad No, that's my sister.

I love my sibling. Sometimes it's the little things trans-heart

[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago

Women... pretty... soviet-bottom

[–] 2Password2Remember@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

(telling my boss i'm quitting the job i started a week ago to take a job with better pay, more benefits and fully remote work): at will employment fucked around and bit you in the balls, didn't it?

Death to America

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[–] Bat@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

dreams, drugs, and suicide mentionHad an awful vivid nightmare last night. I was back in college and staying late on campus for some lab thing when news broke that the US and China declared war on each other and that nuclear strikes were on their way. I sprinted home and was trying to get my car to start so I could go find my sister but it wouldn’t start. I then just kind of wandered out into the streets and found this old man standing by himself. We had a brief conversation and I gave him a hug then the nukes fell. It all felt so real and I like accepted my mortality and that this was the end

Not this exact dream but this scenario of nuclear war is a reoccurring nightmare for me and it all ways feels so vivid and real. I have a couple other really bad vivid reoccurring ones like one where I kill myself and another where I’m attacked and eaten by roaches.

I’ve heard people say that weed gets rid of dreams but I smoke as often as I have money to do so and I still get awful vivid dreams

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (11 children)

im forgetful...Sometimes i forget that hexbear users arent exclusively trans people...

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[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (13 children)

I give it a 50/50 chance I start using she/it pronouns in a month tbh

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[–] Anvil_Lavigne@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

i h8 h8 h8 every variation of

"thing will take [estimated timeframe for completion]"

  • "you have [fraction of timeframe given]"

& it happens so much in star trek oooaaaaaaauhhh

like it seems to me that at best it suggests "everyone below me in the hierarchy is actively deciding to be inefficient" & at worst "threatening / harming people will give them the ability to perform superhuman acts in your service"

i want a movie that sets up a situation like that & then rapidly develops into a crime farce because Doing the Thing literally was not at all possible thinking-about-it

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (8 children)

How to girls flirt with girls?

I know how guys flirt with girls and how girls flirt with guys, but how do girls do it?

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I just act cute and pathetic and it seems to work

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[–] Ceres@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

image of text about lesbian flirting

Alt-text of the text in the screenshot abovea lesbian life tip is that complimenting a girl on the shape of her hands is a way to appear relatively normal or maybe slightly odd and painterly to everyone else in the room while still indicating to her directly that you are deliriously slobberingly verge-of-blacking-out horny

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm sick and my girlfriend isn't here to take care of me, this sucks.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Nice gender, did your mom pick it for you?

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[–] Anvil_Lavigne@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago

bedroom stuff / drugs / sadok so i didn't end up playing Celeste BUT today's been really good :3 been spending quality time w/ partner. i love it when we get distracted by a thing & then suddenly we've been talking for two hours cat-trans but also we've been all over each other all day hehe. excited to explore the kink stuff partner is interested in. ended up getting a touch overstimulated tho but weed & pregabby are helping w/ that.

i mean i also heard that grandpa's in hospice & i'm on the other side of the planet. i knew this would happen & it sucks. but i've actually been feeling like myself again so i'm trying to remain positive.


[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I think my posting wouldn't be so insane if I had the gentle caress of tender lover

But I've got way too much family guy to catch up on for that

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

dysphoriaIf I ever needed any confirmation that I'm doing the right thing, I just need to let my sister show me photos from high school. Yeah, I'm not going back to that nyet. Looking back, I was kind of a mess, and I looked a bit dead inside. Like, I could smile on the outside, but everything else about my appearance said something different.

In a strange way, despite my experience of high school ranging from the deepest depression of my life to pretty mid, I kind of wonder what it would be like to go back, to be who I am now, going through that experience in a better way. Maybe it would be something I could look back on knowing I was happy, or even just see pictures of my present self sitting with my sister at that lunch table, rather than who I was.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago

idk why but today i feel extremely femme and pretty. it feels great!

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (28 children)

Not to brag, emilie-smug but my hair continues to grow obnoxiously. The longest strands are now just below my butt, which is the first time its length has changed meaningfully in like three years? If your hair seems done growing, add some jojoba oil or something, I guess.

Also I am digging this whole lifting thing. I can feel myself enstrengthifying every time I do it. I would do it several times a day ~~if I weren't a noodle armed lil gay~~ and I plan to become the strongest dyke lfg.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (4 children)

girl jeans :)

tfw no pockets kiryu-dame-da-ne

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[–] Wake@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (13 children)

Geeze a lot has happened since the last time I posted. It's been an eventful and transy month for me. Let's see, where to begin?

long winded recap of the last month

My husband told his mom and sister about me. He wanted to be the one to break the news, so I left it up to him. His sister is absolutely fine with it, but I knew she would be. His mom is I guess confused but ok with it. She's way more confused about him being ace than me being trans. His brother is another story. We aren't telling him for a while.

I confronted my mom. I came out to her a few months ago, but she keeps misgendering me and stuff on the phone. She was in town so I flat out told her this is happening and I'd like it if she got with the program. She's doing better since our talk, but she still keeps misgendering me, but I think that's more habit than malicious.

I have my second appointment with at the awesome gender clinic tomorrow. It will most likely be my last because they are closing in a few months. Which is extremely sad. However, I'm still excited to go. I had blood work last week and got my results yesterday and my levels are fantastic. E was at 213, while t was just 6. Big win for IM estrogen and bica. It's been 3 months now officially and things are coming along nicely. I'm pretty sure I have the titty growing gene cause these things are starting to be a whole situation.

And for the most memorable thing that happened in the last month is that my husband and I went and saw one of our favorite bands. He found the band back in February, right after I came out to him and he was still struggling with it. The band is a folk band called Tophouse, and almost all their songs are sappy little love songs. I absolutely love them, and my husband credits them for helping him accept me and us and our future. He got us the tickets in March as a sign of his acceptance and it's kinda been a milestone approaching that I've been looking forward to for a long time.

Anyway, we got a really cool hotel room for the night. The venue was outdoors, in the queer part of town. The weather was incredible. The band was absolutely fantastic. I ended up crying like 4 times out of pure joy because of how much the night meant to me. E is a hellofa drug because I've never cried like that in my life. Afterwards we went bowling because the hotel our room was in had a vintage bowling alley in it. We were the only ones there and it was so fun and really special. He even put my girl name on the scorecard. All in all the night was really special and I love him so much.

Beyond all of that, I've started looking for a new job. I need to get out of the blue collar trades. I don't want to work on an industrial environment around chuds anymore. What little patience I had for them has completely evaporated and I'm so tired of coming home covered in scrates and bruises from the work. There are a few data centers being built nearby, and tho I don't want to contribute to that for ethical reasons, it would be a nice way to change careers in the short term.

Anyway, my ramble is over. One last thing tho:

I love my trans comrades! cat-trans

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago
[–] glans@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago

Once I was in a CPR class where the instructor was heavily emphasizing how important it is to not do the compressions too fast. No more than 1/second. Instructor was walking around telling everyone who was doing it the correct speed to slow down.

Also the instructor had a big section about how you need to organize all your information if you call emergency services (like 9-1-1) so you can tell it to them all at once in a logical order. TIP FOR CALLING 9-1-1: You do not need to volunteer information. They will ask you the information they need in the order they need it. Don't even start talking until you are asked a question. Then, answer exactly the question you are asked and no more. The operator is aware they need to ask you your location, you don't need to interrupt them to do it. They actually deal with people like you all day long, every day.

I will admit to have become pretty snarky during this class.

[–] buh@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago

The sun is transphobic for revealing the flaws in my skin πŸ˜–

[–] throw3352away@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

I accidentally touched the needle after putting the E in my syringe, so I injected it into my bed before I threw it away. Will it make my mattress softer?

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (10 children)

Facial Feminisation Surgery...... Yes I see, very good, however... where Facial Masculisation Surgery? brow

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

it's very funny that there are people out there with the surname bourgeois

like imagine being poor and your surname is bourgeois lmao

[–] buh@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (5 children)

One of the "signs you're trans" symptoms I see often is "imagining yourself as the opposite gender". For a long time I didn't think this one applied to me, but thinking back, it kind of did. I didn't think it applies because I never imagined a feminized version of myself, but sometimes, in some situations, I imagined myself as a fictional female character, or some completely imaginary person that doesn't look anything like me (in terms of facial/body features, ethnicity, etc). Did anyone else experience "imagining yourself as the opposite gender" like this?

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[–] PopPrincess@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (5 children)

How do you cope with the dysphoria?πŸ₯Ή

Dysphoria and other bad stuffYaa idk I'm starting to feel awful and suicidal again. Like I've come pretty far, I seem to pass and be semi-stealth in day-to-day life (though I'm not sure), but dysphoria is still getting to me. I just get constant reminders, like I'll never be able to have kids, dating is a nightmare, I hate being trapped in my disgusting body. Puberty mangled me, and I'll never be able to fix the damage, and I doubt I'll ever find a boyfriend. I have a big urge to start selfharming again.

The thought of being stuck in this body for the rest of my life makes me feel sick, and I often wonder if it's all worth it. Like why suffer through the next many decades like this? I'll never have the life or body I want😞

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My fake rural fake hick fake small town is showing the fucking Matt Walsh flick. This is a town where people drive immaculate lifted trucks to get Starbucks (and can't reach down far enough to get the coffee) and slow down before driving where the road was torn up because they dont wanna damage their shocks, they were the cleanest cowboy boots you've ever seen to an office gig, it's too big to be a small town and too small and conservative to be a city, there's one museum hidden behind some kind of maze at the local library except for the museum that shows off "ancient" farming equipment like og tractors from 100 years ago

They didn't screen I Saw The TV Glow, the didn't screen Civil War, they didn't screen It Ends With Us, oh but they'll screen Matt Walsh. And they're probably right that it'll sell out.

They are screening Megalopolis though which honestly is just a weird decision given the above

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

minecraft peaceful mode seems so damn creepy. minecraft is already a pretty empty world, even less than that with the occasional cow or sheep feels like actually unsettling

[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

starting a personal blog and i'm actually kind of having fun doing some creative writing for it. i meant it to be a fashion blog mostly, but now i think it's going to be a fashion + art + personal musings blog.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

holy fuck i love estrogen so much i actually feel alive now

[–] 2Password2Remember@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (7 children)

why did no one ever mention that learning to code is fun

Death to America

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[–] magi@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (5 children)
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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

::: spoiler vent about hormones Wondering if my hrt degraded during the heat waves of summer, and so my monotherapy isnt working the same for to block T. No breast growth, fat slowly moving back to more masc places, more acne recently, and its all been very slowly getting worse over the past like month or two (to my perception at least). Im on 15 u100 units of 40mg/ml enenthate (works out to 6mg (i think)), but if it degraded idk if it still works out to that amount. Im getting levels done for the first time in 2 weeks, but idk if i should bump my injections by a couple units or not now, vs waiting for my levels to come back. I hate being my own doctor.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Gender is when you get headpets...

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (10 children)

apparently i have a slight nut allergy wtf? how has this never been a problem until now

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I just had a meeting with my coworkers and they all called me my preferred name all the way through and it felt so aggressively normal? It was nice.

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