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When I decided to host the mega again a bit ago, I had no idea what to make it about (of course). So it fell between two topics: a post on the importance of sleep, or a post on just how much I love Fire Emblem: The Sacred Echoes. Well, I felt like the importance of sleep was well-known, and could always wait for the next time I host a mega. I wanted to make sure I hit the Sacred Echoes iron while it's hot, because I've almost finished my play through at this point, and it might genuinely be one of the best games I have ever played.

Sacred Echoes feels so polished, considering it's a fan-made romhack of Sacred Stones, with the goal of bringing the 3DS game, Shadows of Valentia (SoV), to the GBA. Everything about the game aesthetically is very well-done, from the portraits, to the battle sprites, and literally anything else that could be thought of about a game. This includes new character writing, which helps the game in areas where Shadows of Valentia was a little, well, off. That's what I want to go over first, and although I've made a post before, I had only played a little bit of the game. Being at the end, I've noticed more things, and grown to appreciate this game even more than I already did.

Let's start off with the relevant (and interesting) bits: Sacred Echoes actually does a really good job at representing a variety of backgrounds, while also being diverse in a way that doesn't feel like it's simply to have a token character. This game doesn't suffer from the cracker curse, for example. Although most of the characters are white, there is more than one person of color (congratulations) . In terms of LGBTQ+ representation, it's even better. There are many gay/lesbian characters, whose sexuality actually plays a role in the plot and how they interact with others. There's also an aroace character, Lukas, who goes through a whole arc of self-discovery in his support conversations (support Python). It's good stuff, and not things I would normally expect from a Fire Emblem game. I hesitate to bring up the (possibly) only trans character in the game, Jesse. HOLD ON, NO HESITATION AT ALL! I just decided to do more research, and I wasn't just projecting. He is 100% trans, and it's in supports, and it's relevant to his plot and backstory, so it's just like the rest of them, thank goodness, I was worried he was a token. So yeah, support Clive and Jesse. Good stuff, and good luck getting to the end of the game so they can actually meet, one fights for Alm and the other for Celica...

This is Jesse

Here's some dialogue between Clive and Jesse, in the context of a will:

Clive: Only the following will be yours - your mother's wardrobe, her jewelry box, and all corresponding contents.

Jesse: Urgh. Even from halfway in the grave he's trying to tell me what to wear. So yeah, he's still the same tyrant he always was. Hasn't changed a bit.

In terms of character background, it's more diverse than one would think, and it addresses the issue of feudal class. Not all of the characters are nobles, and one of the main characters is a commoner from a random village. The plot regularly deals with the fact that nobles and commoners do not get along. However, it does not try to redeem most nobles. If they aren't proving themselves with their actions, they're probably shitty. Even if they are supposedly "one of the good ones", there's usually some underlying prejudice that comes out when you might not expect it. I love it so much, and I am extremely impressed that the plot doesn't try to redeem nobility as a whole, but rather allows the noble characters within the cast to have character development that feels less like justification and more like re-education.

Pictured is the class traitor Lukas absolutely destroying Fernand

For other details about the story, I'll link my original post. I don't want to drag this on too long, and I mention most of the improvements there. It also includes where to find the patch for the game, and how to play the game for yourself. If you enjoy SRPGs, or are new to the genre, I recommend this game. It has an easy mode for the newbies, and hard mode for those of us who hate ourselves (/s), and a normal mode for everything in-between niko-happy

The Echoes cast is amazing, and I love how they interact with each other and the world. Each character stands out, and they feel unique in their relationships with the other characters. Even characters that suffer in SoV, like Faye and the Masked Knight (has a name but it's spoilers), benefit from the Sacred Echoes writing, making them actually enjoyable characters. The villains of the game are also great. I don't want to go too deep, because I don't want to spoil too much, but they aren't just pure evil, and for that I applaud the SoV writers. Berkut is probably the highlight of the game, being the heir to the throne of the empire. I am once again asking you to play the game, because IT IS SO GREAT, and I would not have expected these good of villains to pair with Alm and Celica, as well as their armies.

Pictured is the Masked Knight being a gay little guy. The other guy (Saber) is threatening his life...

Everything about the game design is also amazing. It's GBA Fire Emblem, so the animations are peak and the pixel art is stellar. The maps are improved from the original SoV maps, and they are definetly much better, and much less repetitive. Classes in the game are fun in how they work, each character being able to promote 2-3 times. Mages also work really uniquely and well in this game, with spells costing HP to cast. They learn spells as they level up, rather than by purchasing tomes, which makes for (in my opinion), better gameplay. Sacred Echoes also adds the GBA weapon and magic triangles!

All in all, Sacred Echoes is a great game, and even if you never ending up playing it, you now know of its existence. It stands out as a great romhack, as well as a great Fire Emblem game, AND it has the gay. Can it really get better than that?

If you want my original (and more in-depth) analysis, check out my original post. It's mostly about what Sacred Echoes improves upon the original Shadows of Valentia.

Hope you enjoyed my little nerd-out session, and have a good week everyone! niko-dance

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Estradiol has made me gain weight, which has gone to my ass, thighs and a bit of boobage which is cool. Main problem is my jeans are too small now

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[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (3 children)

electrolysisOkay so first I take back everything I ever said about electrolysis hurting less than laser. My skin is so angry right now

Pain ratings by area:

Upper lip, above lip line, towards outside width: omori-neutral

Upper lip, closer to philtrum: agni-pain

Philtrum: aubrey-pain

Philtrum, closer to nose: peppino-scream

Upper lip line: bocchi-glitch

Cupid's bow lip line: john-agony

This is supposed to be the most painful area so I hope the rest isn't as bad.

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (2 children)

transphobiaMaybe it makes more sense in a US context where Christianity is more mainstream, but I always think it's so funny when someone chimes into discussions about gender with "The bible says there's only man and woman". Like... okay? And?

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (14 children)

nsfw, hormone shitRealising that I would be much happier if genital atrophy was a real thing instead of a myth from imageboards

omori-neutral

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Shopping for makeup online just reminds me of how ~~white~~ much of a KKKracker I am. I keep overestimating my skin tone and ordering tones that are too dark. The solution would be to ask someone at a store for help, but anxiety is a problem. Hopefully 3rd time is the charm.

Also got the Luna plush. My cat has already begun attacking it.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

gay lil’ uncle watcher

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[–] Wake@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (4 children)

cw depressive work ventingWork has me extremely bummed out recently. I got hurt a few weeks ago on the job. Ultimately it was nothing, just a few big bruises on my legs and chest. But it could have been so much worse. I was plodding a long behind a building and fell into a sump pit full of runoff and sewage. I didn't even know it was there. It should have had a grate over it, but it didn't, and I couldn't see it because the water was just over the brim. Minding my own business and suddenly I'm over my head in sewage, gear oil, and parking lot runoff.

I was forced to stay late and go there. It was a Friday. I wanted to go home. But no instead I fell in a pit, ruined my uniform and soaked my boots. I have a change of clothes but not a change of boots so I had to finish the job in soggy boots. All in all, the whole experience made me severely rethink what I'm doing and my job.

I was already planning on looking for a new job soon, and this whole experience turbocharged my resolve. So I updated all my contact info and resume and started applying. A week later I got confronted because I left my resume as searchable on indeed and my boss was pissed. I had to walk everything back and pinky promise I was happy with my job.

Ever since I've been in a weird depressive funk. I'm starting to feel better and shit but idk I'm still pretty upset about it all. There are a few jobs that have called me back but I'm still waiting on an interview with any of them. I'm so tired of coming home tired. I'm so tired of hiding who I am. Its hard to want to show up to a place that laughs at you when you could have drowned. It's so hard to want to show up at a place that would fire you for coming out as gender non-conforming.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I finally realised that I have utterly lost control of my hair. It's more than twice as long as it was five years ago, I use a comb and oil and stuff and it looks fucking terrible. It's a huge frizzy mess and the bangs work less than 30% of the time and the ends are probably split and the curls barely stay even though I skip combing unless I shower, arrrgh it looks so much worse than when it was just down to my chest, what the fuck. I do not deserve it.

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[–] pooh@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Has anyone else here ever clocked someone because of how cool they are? There's this creator I like who I won't name, but I always suspect she's trans whenever I watch her videos, because it just seems implausible to me that a cis person could make such great content when it comes to certain topics.

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[–] ThermonuclearEgg@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

Making fun of misogyny

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (22 children)

"communication difficulties" and "Low level of functionality"

Maybe if I transitioned that latter would change. Just a bit? But no, you don't get help because you're autistic... (I got denied from gender clinic)

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I'm nuance maxxing bro, I'm juicing both sides, I'm so fucking complexpilled, I'm gonna fukin explode I've got so much refinement on the issue

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Saw a glimpse of my passport photo, might kind of look like a girl, but I am not gonna actually check.

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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (5 children)
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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

dprk-general me coming home from the thinking too much about women i don't reasonably have a shot with and probably aren't into me competition

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

my gf changed my name to wormgirl on discord and she hasn't changed it back.
am not a worm, am dog!

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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Shaving my mustache was, turns out, a pivotal thing for the gender euphoria.

It's like I got rid of all this extra stuff, and now I look in the mirror and I actually see my face, the way I did when I was a kid. It's really something

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (6 children)

i'm not poly but given my current life trajectory i keep feeling like i'm going to wind up in a polycule anyway

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

new pfp/banner :)

kind of hard to see unless you click my profile but oh well. whatever

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[–] HelltakerHomosexual@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (8 children)

i am a transgender apologist, we did nothing wrong!

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[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

Woke up late today

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

i'm a third worldist because the first world created mumford and sons

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

GoofyassWas lookin' down today while wearing a knee-length skirt, tank top and flannel because I look really good. Like woah, flatters my figure. What if it was always like this...?

So I took a few POV pics, which don't precisely convey how good I look or how it feels, fuckin' phone camera. It's nice to have the memento though, I should experiment with it more.

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I looked down at my shirt today and thought "where did those come from?". As much as I worry about them not growing, they are definetly growing.

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

How do I explain to my concerned classmate that I'm actually not nervous about this history exam, I just have Autism and ADHD, whose combination makes me restless, while also suffering with certain varieties of motor function, which is why my hand is shaking. And the most critical point of all, someones talking to me? And I don't know them? That never happens, people tend to avoid me...

Still beats the time time this happened with a cop, it was like many times worse because I not only have those issues, but I actually was nervous and this guy thought I was on drugs and started acting ableist when I brought up the reason.

Anyway, I probably should have either said "yes" or "I have ADHD", but instead I mentioned that I have issues with motor function and I'm just imagining her sitting there thinking I've come up with some sort of excuse. I then went on to absolutely niko-dunk that exam though, soooooo

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (7 children)

surgery post opNearly a week post op for FFS, pain is surprisingly manageable, but the exhaustion hits me like a freight train at random points throughout the day. In addition, I think that I slept harder last night than I ever have at any prior point in my life.

Only discomfort is the swelling around my nose and the nigh biblical swelling around my chin. The nose should subside in a few weeks, and the chin will gradually decrease over the course of a year. So excited to see what I look tomorrow when most of the rest of the bandages come off in the afternoon!

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Want to vent about family shit and get a bunch of shit off my chest

Don't want to overshare or bum nice internet people out

badeline-jokerfied

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (7 children)

One of the few things that incites truly gleeful hate in me is when a cissie gets upset and acts like the term "cis" is a slur, all offended.

badeline-jokerfied OH YEAH? Mad about it, cissie???

It's a nice thought that the cis might get a taste of what it feels like having a "slur" used against em.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

My little sisters moved to my old city! I loved it, I told them about how one of our distant cousins runs a cool metal bar, about some of the neat spots, or the haunted house this month, the good summer festivals, etc.

One of them started wearing a day collar. Which... good for her, but its weird for me to see anything like that - I held her when she was a baby, I dont want to know ANY side of her like that. I know what it was and I knew she liked being marked by her former boyfriends (cause she liked having displayed hickeys etc).

Then I had the most horrible fucking image of me returning to the scene in that city, going to some munch and seeing my little sister there. Oh my god. I don't think I can ever return to the scene until they both move πŸ’€

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

next survey should ask if you are pubby or not

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

Sometimes I'm talking with my wife, and I say "Hexbear has a perfect emote for this!" And I have to open it and show her

normal

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

Boymoding in my gay lil' hoodie with my gay lil' haircut fooling all these cissies.

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)

good brain?decided i'm a communicator now. communicating all kinds of feelings to people these days. watch out, world! i have a feeling and you're gonna know about it

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Marx didn't consider the gaybor theory of value

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (3 children)

we didn't beat bulletins and news, gender fell off

but that's okay, I'll keep drinking that garbage trump-anguish

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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Are you supposed to understand your own emotions?

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

trying to post and scroll less, so i logged out on my phone and deleted my browser shortcuts to hexbear. still letting myself post on the computer for now.

i started orange book, it's clicking with me so far. get the feeling i'm gonna unhinge my jaw and consume it in the next day or two. (my copy isn't even orange though, wtf?) first time in a good while i've read a book that came out this century lol.

[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (5 children)

you mean to tell me there are people who don't dread five minute walks stress

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (7 children)

I had a fucking awful stressful day, but I got to see my kittens' littermate sister that the neighbors adopted and she's very sweet and playful, she absolutely loves chasing a stick around when you drag it around on the ground, so that was nice

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I watched the new jonker

I'll spoiler later bits for those who care, I wouldn't recommend it so whatever. I love Gaga and Phoenix as actors. It was a surprisingly well shot movie with lots of really gorgeous shots - kind of wasted on this. It was funnier than I was expecting, I had some good laughs. Definitely not a need to see in theatre movie, you could watch it when it inevitably comes out on Netflix or whatever if you're interested

I get the feeling the director hated the people who liked the first joker - and then was like

spoiler"yeah here's your favourite cool guy, he's in prison, and he's a moron, and he's abused by the guards, and his girlfriend leaves him, and then all his acolytes hate him, also a guy stabs him and he dies in a hallway" - the southern layer bit when he represents himself was way too funny. And when he cross examines his little person "friend" from the first film (the one he spares), that was some good fucking acting from Leigh Gill.

I have no idea where the budget went, the first film was shot on $60 million this one was like $200 million. It's bizarre. I have no idea why WB releases this but cans Batgirl or deletes whatever cartoons from their streaming catalog - like, I don't get the choice financially. Batgitl must've been a fucking stinker if Joker 2 makes it through the cut.

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[–] Babs@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I had a bad dream :(

stupid transphobic dreammy friends wanted to go swimming but the river was closed cause of river monsters, so they dragged me to a public pool and I had to choose which crowded locker room to go to (the pool was busy because the river was closed).

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