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Children of Time is a 2015 science fiction novel by Adrian Tchaikovsky.

In the distant future, humanity seeks to create new habitats for itself on distant planets, terraforming them and seeding them with life. Dr. Avrana Kern is heading one such project, orbiting the tentatively named "Kern's World", where the plan is to release monkeys le-monke infected with a nanovirus that will accelerate their evolution. Through an act of sabotage from an anti-technology group that has also destroyed much of Earth, the monkeys are never released, and the virus instead infects a species of spider, Portia labiata. The book follows the evolution of the spiders and their eventual civilisation, as well as a remnant of humanity that fled to Kern's World hoping to find paradise.


also children of ruin and children of memory, the sequels, are really good


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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 16 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

yapping about traumathe more I think about trauma, the more unfair I think it is to make traumatized adults participate in capitalist society when they're basically kids.

social services should circle the wagons and let people heal and learn before they have to grow up. it should be given the same urgency as a house fire.

like literally it's not right. you shouldn't be able to grow up wrong. people who need to learn to love themselves should be given that care. not access, not the option, point blank, provided with mental health resources and professionals.

when someone injures their leg, it's not, "oh oh I hope you can get the help you need" it's "holy shit he can't fucking walk we gotta help". why is mental health different LMAO

Obviously I'm being ridiculous and describing something that will never happen. Wanting to be dead is a feature, not a bug.

[–] Azarova@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

replying about traumaI think about this all the time. Insane that we're expected to go through life and deal all the things non-traumatized people struggle with as if we're not trying to also put together and build up ourselves from nothing but a completely shattered foundation. And worst of all, this massive, gaping wound we're stuck trying to heal is basically completely invisible. It's not like we're walking around with casts on or bandages or something like that, so all the ways we struggle can just get written off as being lazy or irresponsible or whatever the fuck people tend to assume. I feel like the only humane way to treat trauma would be to give people at least a few years off of any responsibility so they can just focus on healing, because the stress of trying to do that while juggling a "normal life" feels like it only aggrevates the wound and is generally unproductive in both areas.

[–] buh@hexbear.net 11 points 3 days ago

crappy day folx, I decided to switch from Windows to Fedora, and after installing it, I noticed my PC only recognizes 8 out of the 16GB of RAM that should be there? I confirmed this in the BIOS, and tried to go about fixing it by reseating the GPU and RAM (I have had a problem like this before that was fixed that way), and now I can't get it to boot at all (my theory is one of the RAM sticks was fucked and I ended up fucking up the other). Luckily I have a backup mini PC I bought last year that I intended to use as a home server but never got around to setting up. But while I was moving the old PC to storage, something sharp at the bottom of the case cut my middle finger! 😡 not so bad that I have to go to the hospital or anything, but it's deeper than most finger cuts I've had before. I was just getting back into guitar and now I'm gonna have to take a break from that for probably a week πŸ˜“.

On the bright side, the Fedora experience has already been a lot better so far, I always had minor problems with Windows on my old PC, mainly to do with intermittent wifi (only fixed by limiting it to wifi 3) and random crashes (which I think had to do with the GPU driver, but I'm not buying another GPU just to see if that fixes it), but Fedora Just Works. Also I was expecting to run into issues when moving the SSD from my old PC to the "new" one, but it's pretty much been a plug and play experience.

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 18 points 3 days ago (1 children)

sexismI have a difficult time calling myself and being called a woman but not for gender reasons I don't think. I like girl and lady. I think it's because growing up, the context I would hear the word "woman" being used the most is my dad referring to my mom, and tying her fulfilment of her "biblical duties" to her womanhood. I think it's hard for me to separate the word from that connotation, even though I know it's bullshit. Like every time someone calls me a woman I feel my dad calling me one and I hate it.

[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)

spoilerSometimes we just have personal reasons why certain gendered terms don’t work for us. Hate your dad, though.

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 13 points 3 days ago

spoilerYeah I do too. He sucks in so many ways. If my brother wasn't living with him I would have cut him off entirely by now.

I'm kind of on the lookout for other terms I can go by (maybe even some nongendered ones πŸ‘€). I have the suspicion that I haven't found my favorite yet.

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 15 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I tried playing marvel rivals with some friends and its kinda fun, but also reminded me why I stopped playing those types of games: so many people who can't take a loss without getting insanely mad doggirl-sweat The absurdity of it is kinda funny when it happens, but it creates such a negative environment where i don't want to spend that much time tbh

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Unless it's your friends getting mad online, just mute the in-game voice chat.

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 7 points 3 days ago

I have but people still rage in the text chat. Guess I could just mute that too

[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 15 points 3 days ago (1 children)

called the college LGBTQ center

left a voicemail

if this truly is a solo journey then i have to accept that i have nobody. it's just me. it might always be just me.

[–] anonochronomus@hexbear.net 9 points 3 days ago

POS10 posting POSTIN TRANSITION COMPLETE; I am now Alice D. Addertounge newest member of the Sun Ra Arkestra! Rocket number nine to the planet Venus!

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 3 days ago (3 children)

does anyone have tips for a gnome infestation. i tried publicly crucifying one to send a message but they seem to have founded a religion instead

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 2 points 2 days ago

try kde instead

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 3 days ago

I've been warning y'all for years about this but not one of you took me serious πŸ˜”

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 14 points 3 days ago (3 children)

it makes me happy whenever i see capybara in hot springs. they deserve all the love and goodness in the world

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Saturday nights all right for fighting

[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 21 points 3 days ago (2 children)

THEY'RE TURNING THEIR FRIGGIN' KEYBOARDS TRANSalex-aware

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[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 23 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Death to the reactionary egg prime directive! Long live the revolutionary zone of proximal transgender development!

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I think the egg prime directive is around to prevent heartache, like a Nevada style thing.

I would've loved if someone told me at 14 that I was feeling so awful about puberty and browsing like fictionmania and researching trans healthcare and being jealous of how my mom related to my sister was all because I was a girl and I could be transgender too. As obvious as it was post egg crack, it wasn't when I was living through it... I probably would've just rejected all that and said "nope still a guy"

But the weird toxic discourse about the egg prime directive isn't about any of that, it's about thinking being called a trans woman or trans man or non binary is the worst thing like an insult or that people who just play with gender (tom boy or butch lesbian) might be "pressured" to transition. I love being trans, it's not an insult to me. We have one last cis het guy in our friend group, everyone else came out and/or transitioned, who we lightly tease about somehow being the last cishet.

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🎡 Only you can set me free, 'cause I'm guilty (guilty) 🎡

🎡 Guilty as a girl can be 🎡

🎡 Come on baby, can't you see 🎡

🎡 I stand accused 🎡

🎡 Of love in the first degree 🎡

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 11 points 3 days ago

anyone who dislikes the ember island players episode is no friend of mine

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Me working at sega"Alright, so new plan we start a new sonic game but we don't remake green hill zone no-copyright my last words before being thrown out a window

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago

vince staples if he was woke: girl yeah right yeah right yeah right

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