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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 34 points 1 day ago (5 children)

I hate the phrase "he or she" in academic texts. Like come on, we have a pronoun for when someone's gender is unknown or unspecified, its they. You don't need to do "he or she" at all. Its just worse than "they" in every way.

Now if your gender is "he or she", then that's a lot cooler

[–] picklemeister@hexbear.net 17 points 1 day ago

i have never understood why people struggle so much with saying 'people' instead of 'men and women'. it's literally less words

Luckily "they" is now standard in APA guidelines, but yeah "he or she" is also just so clunky, nvm the gender angle.

Just last semester I had one book from 2013 that used "he or she", and a book from a few years back explicitly instructing the reader to use " singular they" and m/f/x

[–] Azarova@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago

It's so jarring and clunky too, it sounds awful. Somehow even worse is "he/she", which I've seen a handful of times.

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago
[–] Moss@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This post was brought to you by my ADHD. I desperately needed to stop reading an academic text and this was the thing that made me stop. Anyway now I have a lecture that I haven't done the reading for in ten minutes, this is fun so much fun

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Planned Parenthood follow-up went well. We upped my dose from 1 mg 2/day oral tablets to 5mg/week EV IM (keeping on the 50mg 2/day spiro for now). Really excited!

[–] Zorothamya@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I've been thinking about what name to call myself. I have one name in mind that I really like, but it's literally my birthname with two letters added. And I don't know how to feel about that. And while it sounds good in most of the languages I speak, it sounds like it was ripped out of some fantasy novel in english, because that's the only context where I have heard the english translation of that name being used.

I don’t think I could’ve ever been comfortable with the feminine version of my deadname. I would’ve constantly had the feeling of getting deadnamed even when they get it correct.

Instead, I got both my first and middle name from Greek mythology, which could pass as fantasy novels, I guess. doggirl-smug

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

can't spell "sonic the hedgehog" without "he hedgehog"

people who headcanon him as transfem owned doggirl-smug

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

well yeah obviously shadow is the transfem

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

can't spell "sonic the hedgehog" without "hog" feral-hog

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

sonic the hog

feral-hogγƒŸγƒŸ

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

they're speed lines. obviously

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago (8 children)

Got a treat for doing the chores. Jealous? doggirl-smug

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

extremely, I need to have some words with some people about this

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago
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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

Caves of Qud is so much fun!

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 36 points 1 day ago (2 children)

sicko-yes america finally collapsing

sicko-no you live there and are a member of a vulnerable minority group

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I like when my dream is like:

doggirl-smug β€œc’mon you’re male, you are the brother, beat up your sisters abusive ex”.

…and then I actually do it as if I’m not a 5’3 estrogenized girl-thing who can’t even pick up 50 pounds to save my life. doggirl-sweat

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Dream tips. Go for strangling, the punches do nothing. the-more-you-know

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Strangling feels kind of visceral.
I just punched them a lot and slammed them on the ground over and over.

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago

Fair fair.

Also really cool waow-based slam that fucker around, girlie

[–] cyber_godqueen@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago
[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 27 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Bah. I spent decades of my life trying to force myself to stay in the closet and no amount of repression could keep me in there, and most trans people can claim the same. Does Trump think he can force us back in with a few executive orders? He has no idea who he's dealing with

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 27 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Depressing stuffHe doesn’t think anything about us really. He just says and does whatever makes his supporters go wild for him. Many years ago he even made the news for overturing a ban for a trans beauty pageant from his Miss Universe organization.

It’s honestly depressing to think that all of this dehuminization is just an act to boost his own ego and to keep himself in power, all fueled by our blood.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

depressing/doomer

He just says and does whatever makes his supporters go wild for him.

This violence is only being done because it is popular. Thinking about all the people who support this, or are okay with it happening makes me doom even more then the idea of one evil person. It isn't trump, its a lot of the people in society around us. Most people support (at least some parts of) this.

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

doomer/bloomer/cope

It's happening because of contradictions in the mode of (re)production. The issue is not "people," it's capitalism and patriarchy. Individual and mass psychology is subordinate to that. So, try not to take it personally, and remember that by building communism, we can and will create emancipated and productive Soviet citizens out of this currently reactionary human material. inside-im-crying

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

In the most recent Larian community news post about Baldur's Gate 3:

our Community Team took the next most natural step and joined Tumblr - because if the gang are going to star in a thousand slow-burn romance fics, we might as well be there to see it.

it's like they follow me~

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Kind of have the urge to play

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

I've been playing a...lot...recently and it's even better honestly. You can get a lot of good mods through the game too! I'm currently playing a Divine Soul sorcerer/warlock with a plait that goes all the way down to her ankles and the level cap raised to 20 catgirl-salute

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