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IT'S SO COOL THAT YOU HAVE INGESTED THE ANTIANDROGEN TABLET THOUGH HAPPY FOR YOU, HOPING FOR PROGRESS IN YOUR ANIME TRANSITION SOON
fuckin pharmacy didn't have the syringes for the E so it's just this until i can get the real good shit. hopefully this afternoon but maybe it might not be until tomorrow morning
Oh damn already on injections? I had to wait a year. Your best bet is to ultimately purchase your own needles and syringes. Itβs what I do. I have like 2 years of each and it cost me like $50
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Cool that they start you on E right away though, I had to wait a few months of just AAs when I started.
fuck waiting. hit me with all the good shit ASAP because it's still going to take a long ass time to get some real results anyway
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Had my 3 week post-op appointment today. Everything is healing splendidly! Next follow-up is at 2 months so that says how well it is going right there. Iβm super happy with how everything has gone. Well, GI tract issues aside of course, but still. Best month of my life hands down. Sorry if Iβve been waxing poetic about it too much. Itβs hard to not be super happy about my bottom surgery =w=
Sorry if Iβve been waxing poetic about it too much
I'm glad to see people be happy about these kinds of things.
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Was told I'm not really a trans femme because I stopped taking hrt meds after being happy with my body. Like what the shit?
being told you aren't actually transfem is one of the most transfem things imaginable
Transmeds can fuck off, of course you're transfemme!
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i've been invited to my local transfem hornyposting server, pls help 
If desired, simply join in the transfem hornyposting.
If not, simply say "Thank you, I appreciate the invite but am not comfortable with hornyposting"?
well. it was a messy process that required a bit of improvising and having to use a big ass drawing needle for the injection but i have been on E officially for the last 35 seconds
"No alcohol wipes? Can't find any around the house? Fuck it, use a paper towel and some vodka"
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I have gender dysphoria, I think.
It's just... been plaguing me lately.
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I like my boobs, happy with size, my gf likes em, but prog has made them grow more. Which is nice, yeah, but I'm fucking busting buttons out of my cute tops like a god damm cartoon
Been lurking here for a while. Came out to my wife as genderfluid a couple weeks ago, which was pretty rough. That doesn't feel like the whole thing, though.
dysphoria?
Maleness feels like a mask or lack of awareness about myself. Femininity is the only way I feel like I'm "seeing" myself.
Happy to be here finally talking to the trans people in my computer 
i think i pass at work 
no one has said anything or asked anything atleast 
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thinking about getting some of that body fat redistribution and muscle loss and soft skin is making to go 
irl
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Hello everyone, I hope everyone will have a great week!!! Much love!!! π₯°π₯°π₯°π³οΈββ§οΈπ³οΈββ§οΈπ³οΈββ§οΈπ₯°π₯°π₯°
My mom visited me from out of town this weekend. She's been mostly supportive but also really boomer about everything up until now, but recently she has been talking to people who know trans people and reading books to understand me better. I have never felt so seen and so understood by my mom. We talked the harm we've both done to each other candidly, and she accepted responsibility as the parent for all of it.
Before this, i was sure that she'd never "get" it and that our relationship was always going to be at arms length but she switched it up on me. And now our relationship is going to be difficult again but it's a very different difficult and I'm really excited for it.
If you havenβt noticed, the cool part of genderfluidity is being able to get gender envy from anyone
Unfortunately it also means my facial hair is never shaved just the right amount
Ummmm. It was my birthday recently and now I have decide I should start HRT. How do I start? What do I need? And where do I get the stuff from? I'm still totally cis though, I just really, really want feminizing hormones... 
cough https://hrt.coffee/ cough sorry for 
https://www.reddit.com/r/TransDIY/wiki/index/
now you should probably talk to a doctor to get started on the waiting list if they wont murder you in your country for it
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I finally cut my hair and for the first time I feel a lot of gender euphoria when I see my reflection 
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Oh look, fresh new mega to terrorise β¨
Last mega ended with like 470 comments, I love to see it. Is this no longer rookie numbers???
Things have really taken off the past month or so. Itβs pretty damn hype ngl.
We love to see it 
im gay
I just want to make a comment so we can make this one bigger than the last one
also a funny thing is I had a consult for an orchi last week and on the list of "alternative low impact treatments" its like
- tucking (okay sure)
- anti-androgens (okay sure)
- vaginoplasty (uhhhhh)
still not 100% sure if I want to chop the boys off, but wanted to get the referral process started just in case. my main anxieties are losing function of my doodad, and also signing up for a lifetime of hormonal medication
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Also just wanna say once again having a sub is great, being in a romantic t4t relationship with a sub is greaT, I would absolutely recommend it
All my sick shit I like to do to people is appreciated and desired by this beautiful person π© its making me a soft dom swear to god lol
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down with cis
My current strategy of just pulling through with trans stuff, without explaining anything works pretty well, I feel(this is vibes basef, not evidence based). Of course there are limits, especially with clothing and the like, but so far noone really cares about my painted nails, my hair, or my jewelry.
What I get are compliments. It's fun being able to experiment. The most important part is just not being nervous, but looking confident in yout own skin.
Act like people are weird for thinking something is unusual about you, people don't like being weird, so they won't ask. Make the other person commit a social faux pas in order to ask you anything you don't want to be asked. Social rules exist and can be used as a tool.
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CW: internalized transphobia
How do I stop being embarrassed over being trans?
Asking people to call me my preferred name or to use she/her actually embarrasses me and makes me cringe on the inside. Getting misgendered or deadnamed feels one thousand times worse but getting gendered correctly still feels bad. I don't have this problem online though and to the people I know there I don't feel this kind of shame, I guess it's probably because they can't see what I look like and for all they know I pass but to people in person it is abundantly clear that I do not
I want to be a woman, but I do not feel like one at all, and asking people to call me one makes me feel like an imposter and so uncomfortable
Whenever I'm in a situation where everyone says their pronouns I want to rip all my skin off and die. I don't want someone she/her-ing me because I told them to do that, I want them to she/her me because they actually genuinely think that it fits me
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Hope everyone's having a good week
as is the case every week (body stuff)
I hate having a vagina! π
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I just want someone to peel my face halfway off and sand the bones down, is that too much to ask???
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starting to accept i have bottom dysphoria and it fucking sucks. there's nothing I can do about it because I don't have money or coverage.
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I was watching an episode of Elementary, and at one point Watson told Holmes that she has a guest over, and Holmes was like: "You've taken a lover in my absence. That's excellent! I can't wait to meet him. Or her. Or is it them?" We love our enby inclusive Holmes, folks.
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Gonna start experimenting a little with dressing slightly more femme, I'll die before I let any fucker put me in a skirt but, like, I've bought these cute tights with pictures of moths on 'em that I'm gonna wear with my shorts.
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how in the fuck am i supposed to get enough sleep, work enough to pay for shit, and meet people?
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I had a nice surprise hit me this morning when I was getting ready for my doctor appointment. Today was the first time I put a bra on since my surgery and apparently my boobs decided it was time to grow. I actually had a decent amount of overflow in my bra that really caught me off guard. My boobs stopped being sore so I just assumed that they were finished. Either way, Iβm not buying a size up now. Gonna wait until I get top surgery late this year cause bras are super expensive. Also donβt wanna buy a cup up and find out I am just crazy.
I feel like my hairline somehow got worse despite being on hrt 
Idk maybe Iβm just imagining it I look like a different person every time I look in the mirror anyway
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Went in for my first electrolysis appointment and the technician told me i should probably get a re-evaluation with my insurance because she took one look at my hair, saw how dark it was, and was surprised I was recommended for electrolysis over laser.
Reached out to my insurance and now I'm hoping they get back to me soon.
I was left a bit shaken up for some reason, maybe the nervousness of going in for electro gave me a bit of an adrenaline rush, idk.
Bit disappointed because this is a small hump but hey at least laser should be faster than electrolysis.
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