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Cardiac arrest, also known as Sudden Cardiac Arrest, is when the heart stops beating suddenly. The lack of blood flow to the brain and other organs can cause a person to lose consciousness, become disabled or die if not treated immediately.

The terms ‘heart attack’ and ‘cardiac arrest’ are often used interchangeably, but these are two different heart conditions.

A heart attack occurs when there is a blockage in the arteries that stops blood flow in the heart. Due to the lack of blood and oxygen flowing in the heart, the heart muscle tissue will become damaged. Heart attacks can increase the risk for cardiac arrest because heart attacks can alter electrical signals in the heart.

CPR – or Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation – is an emergency lifesaving procedure performed when the heart stops beating. Immediate CPR can double or triple chances of survival after cardiac arrest.

If someone experiences cardiac arrest, they need immediate treatment to increase the flow of oxygen-rich blood to their organs. CPR is the compression over the chest to manually pump a patients heart. Rescue breaths are preformed to provide oxygen to the body.

During CPR, proper hand placement on the lower half of the sternum is crucial. Placing hands over the sternum ensures effective chest compressions directly above the heart, optimizing blood circulation throughout the body.

According to the American Heart Association (AHA), the overall survival rate for out-of-hospital cardiac arrest is around 10%. However, survival rates can be improved if bystander CPR is started immediately. Studies have shown that bystander CPR increases the chances of survival for someone experiencing cardiac arrest. In fact, the AHA reports that survival rates increases to 40% or higher when bystander CPR is performed promptly. The surival rate is between 24% and 40% for those that happen in the hospital, according to the report published online in the Emergency Medicine Journal.

CPR is preformed between 100 - 120 beats per minute. Famously Staying Alive by the Bee Gees is the same beat. A large list of songs with the correct BPM can be found here


cure-for-fascism The American Red Cross gives the following list of steps to asses if CPR is needed and how to preform:

1 CHECK the scene for safety, form an initial impression and use personal protective equipment (PPE)

2 If the person appears unresponsive, CHECK for responsiveness, breathing, life-threatening bleeding or other life-threatening conditions using shout-tap-shout

3 If the person does not respond and is not breathing or only gasping, CALL 9-1-1 and get equipment, or tell someone to do so

4 Kneel beside the person. Place the person on their back on a firm, flat surface

5 The American Red Cross CPR guidelines recommend 100 to 120 chest compressions per minute, 30 at a time. Remember these five points:

Hand position: Two hands centered on the chest

Body position: Shoulders directly over hands; elbows locked

Compression depth: At least 2 inches

Rate of compressions: 100 to 120 per minute

Allow chest to return to normal position after each compression

6

Give 2 breaths

Open the airway to a past-neutral position using the head-tilt/chin-lift technique Pinch the nose shut, take a normal breath, and make complete seal over the person’s mouth with your mouth. Ensure each breath lasts about 1 second and makes the chest rise; allow air to exit before giving the next breath Note: If the 1st breath does not cause the chest to rise, retilt the head and ensure a proper seal before giving the 2nd breath If the 2nd breath does not make the chest rise, an object may be blocking the airway

7 Continue giving sets of 30 chest compressions and 2 breaths. Use an AED as soon as one is available! Minimize interruptions to chest compressions to less than 10 seconds.

Video instructions

Sources:

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/cardiac-arrest

https://cpr.heart.org/en/resources/cpr-facts-and-stats

https://www.mycprcertificationonline.com/blog/cpr-success-rate

Instructional images from the AHS Basic Life Support Manual (2020)

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Democratic Kittens Republic of My House update 🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛The kittens' papa visited today :3

He's still very skittish but got something to eat and marked territory in the yard. The kittens always greet him and they nudge each other and groom each other's fur.

Their littermate neighbor visited today too, they all got to play together. I love her whiskers and long ear tufts

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[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (12 children)

Okay I was planning to sleep, still am, but I want to ask a dumb question about Orange Book.

mega spoilersIs my epub damaged, or just it just end with James H. ditching Maria, calling his girlfriend, and having him drive her home? If so, lol lmao, but also ... I'll post more thoughts tomorrow. Am literally asleep right now (I'm sure you can tell)

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

I can't believe I feel like I already need more clothes. I thought I would be done, but I was very much not ready for the season change. Anybody have some recommendations on what looks good to wear in the fall and/or winter? I have very bad fashion sense, all I've gotten are a couple of pairs of jeans.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

trauma/abuseI have been talking with my two closest friends about some of my childhood. They both think my parents were abusive.

I don't know how to process this. I have been in fight or flight for the last like, day. I didn't eat yesterday. Got like three hours of sleep at 7am. I have cried so much. After finally telling someone some of what I remember its just... so sad. They loved me... but still did things I have had trouble getting over since. I have wondered for a while. I knew it was wrong, I knew it made me feel awful, and scared, and many other things... but it felt normal. I blame(d) myself.

I feel sad. Numb. Broken. I feel/have felt for a long time that what I dealt with was not enough to be legitimate. I'm still denying it a little bit. I guess always feeling on edge/a bit scared around dad makes sense with this framework though...

spoiler self harm I am fighting the urges. My brain is convinced this would be easier to deal with if I did it. I am keeping myself from doing it only because I feel like other people would say its bad. ::: Thank you for reading. I am feeling a lot and I don't know how to deal with it. Advice is welcome, I'm not ready to talk about details though so please don't ask.

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[–] Philosoraptor@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Analyze the situation. If necessary, start

Compressions. Check the

Airway and also manage

Breathing.

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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (12 children)

I just heard that adults are responsible for self-regulating all their emotions? Yeah right. It can't be true. It can't be true. It can'

Edit: I'm confused, because self-regulating sounds a lot like never bothering anyone with your silly emotions. But it's toxic to be codependent and share your problems with people?

I need some crayons or something. I'm confusing myself

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Coming down with a case of gear acquisition syndrome

If I were rich I could easily see myself blowing like twenty grand on instruments and amps and pedals and recording stuff

Currently looking at basses

A Bass VI makes the most sense for me but I kinda love Mustang PJ basses and this Orange O-Bass is really neat to me and it matches most of my wardrobe and cats lmao

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Growing up, my mom would say she couldn't wait to embarass me at my wedding - after I did some cringe little kid shit. It mortified me. Jokes on her, never got married and never will at this rate sucker ha ha

Shed also, in exacerbated moments, wish that I would have a child just like me. Well, she made it sound so unappealing and having kids was the wrong decision for my parents so- I don't have any and likely never will lol

I guess for her generation and before, it was impossible to conceive of yourself as NOT married and NOT a parent after 30 but for me and my friends and their friends, the weirdos are the ones who married and had kids. I think I have 1 friend who did both. I have a friend who was married and divorced (never remarried), so that's something too I guess.

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)
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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (5 children)

funny how i think of myself as being into men and yet so far none of the masculine men on the dating apps have interested me blocky-wat

guess it's time to question my sexuality again...

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

To be fair, cis men DO A LOT to make cishet women question if men are really worth it

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (14 children)

Just shaved my legs for the first time in a while. Usually I just epilate for the convenience of only needing to do it a couple times a month, but that perfect baby smooth feeling you get after a razor shave is just something else

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (11 children)

The RETRVN of horrifyingly weird trauma processing and sexposting!!!

I cannot express adequately the magnitude of my fucking disdain for the fact that pretty much everything sex related is going to be a trial, for the rest of my life. I'm also really incredibly bitter and salty that it's all because my ex from when I was literally 15 was more interested in using me as a sex toy than having a partner omori-neutral and so now I'm saddled with a very high chance to freak the fuck out if I try anything remotely spicy.

Uuuuuuugh fuck why why why aubrey-rage-cry

I'm really envious of people who and and do just do stuff, like engage with kink naturally (this is important because most people don't feel compelled to do fuckin research) and enjoy it, instead of even a "test the waters" type thing being a huge daylong highly emotional ordeal. I hate this so passionately, it would be cool if I could just do the neat thing! the space! but my neurotype also seems to be sabotaging me because emotional dysregulation really does not help either. Literally cannot even just chill and vibe anymore (I guess I never could lmao) because of shitty snobby bratty MIC failchildren, what the fuck.

They will pay for this, all of them badeline-rage

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

I'm sick and my girlfriend went to sleep before me. Someone call the police.

[–] buh@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

made some tofu scramble and toast for dinner and now I'm going to unwind with some tea and painkiller (the FPS game) comfy

also I am on day 3 of quitting alcohol and so far it's been fine but I have a slight headache and I really hope it's not a sign that I am actually going to have withdrawals stress

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (13 children)

Oof, I'm doin autism. Getting into the comfort-groove of watching half hour videos on Game Boy Pokemon glitches...

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

death to the amerikkkan medical system fr. the process of trying to get a diagnosis for my fatigue issues so that i can have accommodations for them is so overwhelming and frustrating (and i'm so, so sick and tired of being told that it's psychosomatic. if it is, well my mental health improving over the past few months has done nothing to get rid of it)

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

dysphoriaI really need to work harder on transitioning, I think that's a lot of my problem. There's so much to change and it feels like little has. I am really hoping to push myself to take more steps this next week.

I try not to think about it much, but I really wish I had better irl support. My therapist does not understand the importance of transition to me or the impact my other issues cause me. He wants to chalk everything up to my avpd and that I don't try hard enough, basically.

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[–] naom3@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Seeing the doctor this week, gonna find out if switching from 12.5 mg cypro every day to 12.5mg every other day is still working

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

oh wow that one girl i had a crush on DMed me on discord the other day and invited me to work on that one craft project i've been meaning to :))))))))))))))))))))))

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Thanks to all the nerds on hexbear (particularly @BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net ) I am playing Minecraft Java again, really really, for the first time in almost ten years.

What's a shield? Why is there is dopey sword icon under my crosshair?

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

Free username idea for anyone to use that popped into my head: ClassWarGreymon

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[–] Bat@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

big bug bite on Bat's butt shatter

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

wordpress compressing images... why boohoo it won't let me change that unless I pay them and I don't have the budget for that rn

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (2 children)

My cat wants to sit with me, but is restless. Her solution? Just walk all over me instead.

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (6 children)

watched the barbie movie. it's aight. the stuff I liked the most was costuming, set design, and choreography; the plot was pretty fucking mid. the ken discovering patriarchy stuff was kinda funny, but a pretty meh plot overall. it's just the same kinda fuax aspirational liberalism barbie has always been while integrating critiques of itself to be like 'actually, we get hyper femme perfect barbie and president barbie is unatainable. you just have to be you. and things will be not great, but ok :) ), and I found that pretty mid.

why was this movie so popular? like it's ok, it's not bad, it's just not non stop months of memes and pop cultural relevance good. is it really just the barben-himer thing?

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (8 children)
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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (2 children)

legalise breaking your coworker's phone when she's playing tiktok out loud

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)
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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

every woman in legend of korra is very pretty, the artists were on fire with this show

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

Just listened to SOPHIE for the first time.

First song, "It's okay to cry" :

Aw, this is gonna be a cute albumbridget-vibe

The rest of the album:

enel-wtf

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike 14 points 1 month ago

Its kinda weird reading something from 1995 saying something like

There’s a lot of writing about gender now. I keep reading the magazine articles, the newspaper columns, and the text books, pre- and postmodern. I read, watch, and listen to all the ads and commercials. You can learn a lot about gender from those commercials. I’ve also been watching the talk shows, listening to the call-in programs, and browsing the electronic bulletin boards. When I was very young, growing up in the 50s, I read the medical texts, devoured the tabloids, and hoarded the pornography—because I was intensely interested in me and my people.

Like, I was too young then to be noticing such, but its still weird seeing that when I don't think I really had even a vague idea of what transsexual/transgender was until probably the late 00's or maybe even early 10's. My parents frequently took us to LGBT family events as young children, so I wonder how much representation the T's got or if it was almost exclusively the LGB at those? Doubt I'd have noticed though... I remember one time being at a church my parents had taken us to occasionally (mostly for Christmas service) and I had missed that it was largely an LGBT church until I was in the middle of high school because I simply didn't notice all the same-sex couples (suddenly it made sense why my mom went so far out of the way to go to that church). So maybe I was just oblivious.

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