The cissies in my life are absolutely clueless. I can not imagine what they think when they see me. They must think this is just what I look like with long hair and a shaved face. But when I catch a reflection of myself, all I see is my mom.
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Transmasculine Pride Ring
autism, agoraphobia, whining about trying to be social and normal and it not going well
Cool relative is in town and wanted to go out and do stuff with me
Went out to dinner which I never do and everything was disappointing
Went to the batting cage, rolled my ankle and jammed my thumb
Went to a cat café and you have to book appointments in advance to actually go in and play with the kitties so I just got a cute mug for my mom
Went to a barcade and it was really loud and overwhelming and the non alcoholic IPA was underwhelming and a little flat
Had a really bad headache and had to drive home in the dark and LED headlights made it worse
I think I'm just allergic to outside and fun
Shit like this makes me aware that I'm probably way more spectrum-y than I usually think
Every attempt to Make Myself Have Fun feels magnetically repulsed by me and just leaves me exhausted and sad about how bad I am at interacting with the outside world
I feel like I need a week in bed in low lights and recording booth sound panels on my walls now
I'm just not cut out for this shit
What is happening today in gender, comrades?
Physically aching and spiritually yearning
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(I rolled my ankle and hurt my hand, that probably sounded thirsty)
spoiler diet/weight loss On the bright side, I think my shitty night yesterday helped galvanize my resolve to get back in shape and eat healthier and go
I realized how out of shape and gross I felt trying to do something athletic again and I am filled with determination to Get Hot and hit my goal weight by my next birthday and I think it's a reasonable target if I cut out snacking and get more disciplined about portion control and will myself to endure the steep shitty hill climb of starting a cardio schedule when you're out of shape
I want to feel confident wearing crop tops next summer and get a navel piercing or something idk :::
Hell yessss! You got this. Love hearing about my gender diverse comrades fitness goals. This largely coincides with my own goals once I can exercise again in a few weeks! Not having that outlet post op is making me a bit stir crazy. Give yourself some grace starting out the fitness schedule, every small bit is a victory, and it is so accumulative! Consistency always wins!
Just an additional note though, you’re already hot. All of my trans/NB comrades are hot. It’s just facts, don’t even try to debate.
Tom and Jerry roleplay
The feeling of seeing myself in the mirror just doesn't get old. I can't believe this is my life
Skin is surprisingly soft/smooth for a change. Gonna blame the two injections I had on Tuesday.
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No, I'm not talking about E. Why would I do two shots of that? Could always have just used more in the single injection.
There I was, watching a trashy reality TV show when I spotted men with thick, hairy, juicy thighs and suddenly experiencing the desire nay urge to fuck them. Thighs were always a more femme thing for my bi brain, and now they've made the leap to universal hotness signifiers like big ol butts.
My god, what has happened to me
@EstraDoll@hexbear.net we should make this when everyone is at your house for legos
@EstraDoll@hexbear.net when are all 17 of us getting together for legos today
whining
Having the first dysphoria day in months. Trying my best to pull myself out of the hole. Washed and styled my ratty hair. Tried on 2 outfits, hated them, found a third. Even if I'm miserable, I will be queer in public. I will spite the cis.
So anyway, when I was a guy, my wife used to describe me with a lot of different adjectives ranging strong to sexy and everything in between. Things related to my personality or values.
Since starting transition, she only describes me as some form of pretty (I know I'm lucky to have someone to describe me as pretty, but I'm emotional and whining rn). I brought up that it was kind of fucked up months ago because, while I enjoy being pretty and beautiful, it's not the ONLY thing I am as a fem. I know she doesn't always want to be described in those terms either. She didn't really take it seriously.
This morning, when I finally got my outfit settled, she said I looked like "the smartest woman in the room" and I legit got dewy eyed (that's where I am emotionally today). So I brought up my issue again, and I think it will stick this time.
I think it's good advice generally to open up the narrow confines of "cute" and "pretty" when trying to achieve femininity. Would recommend.
SA
I keep having dreams where people overpower and grope me, but half the time I can’t tell if my brain intends it to be a horny dream or a nightmare
we got a good night's sleep! basically the first time we slept in 3 days
bit of body and bottom dysphoria, tucking
Concerned about getting tucking panties because I don't really have hips yet, and the circumference of my waist is still several inches larger than my hips.
Could getting women's shapewear help for both? Like would it help with tucking and be able to tone down my stomache?