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[–] hyrax@hexbear.net 20 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 7 points 13 hours ago

Based and gender-abolitionism pilled Mahasi Sayadaw?

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 21 points 16 hours ago (9 children)

It genuinely boggles my mind how many cis people there are. Like you mean to tell me we all get assigned a social category at birth based on nothing but our sex characteristics and yet 99% of the population is like "hell yeah that doc was totally right."

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 10 points 14 hours ago

Literally indistinguishable from a caste system

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 15 hours ago

50% of cis people are women so I get it

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 15 hours ago

Cisnormativity is a hell of a thing and must be abolished madeline-stare

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 15 points 15 hours ago

well when we manage to start moving in the right direction in terms of transgender liberation the numbers (of us) are gonna go up significantly. many repressors out there still.

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 15 points 16 hours ago

It's so strange to me, there have to be more people who want a to ditch, in whole or in part, their assigned gender at birth. 99% of the population is cis? I don't buy it catgirl-smug

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 13 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Like what if we all had our favorite color assigned at birth? It would be surprising if only 1% of the population said "eh honestly I think I like blue more"

What's the difference between that and "actually I don't belong to that social category, thank you very much."

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 6 points 12 hours ago

No, it's not like that at all considering your entire social life is shaped by assignment and acceptance/rejection of sex. If colors were like that then they'd just be sex.

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 16 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Getting the gender marker updated at the Social Security Administration office was easy, once I was able to get an appointment. Was complete within 5 minutes, and the staff was nice.

[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

There's gender markers at Social Security? My card never has had any marker of gender on it.

[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 4 points 11 hours ago

Yes, it's in the database. I strongly recommend that you get it changed if other federal IDs are changed as well, since a mismatch between that and other documents might be flagged if the new administration tries to audit those databases to find trans people.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 12 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I’ve never had that shit done and I’ve been transitioning for years, I’m surprised it is that simple

[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 7 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Well, it is right now. The Biden admin effectively instituted self-id for federal identification documents (Passports and Social Security Cards). It's very likely that the Trump admin will quickly halt this policy, so I'd recommend getting it done soon if you can.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 14 hours ago

I hope it comes back after trump

[–] WittyProfileName2@hexbear.net 21 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

HRT update: skin is getting softer.

Not all of it has changed yet so there'll be, like, sudden patches where it's less soft on, like, my arms or legs.

Bits that've changed feel nice, still getting used to the difference in how clothes feel on my skin though.

[–] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Nice, how long have you been on it? So I know when I can expect it

[–] WittyProfileName2@hexbear.net 5 points 11 hours ago

About four months.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 12 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Skin softening luffy-pog

yappingI kinda wonder if that's why I have so many sensory issues with clothes tbh. I don't remember having as many issues like that prior to hrt... hmmmm...

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 9 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Care labels are the bane of my existence now. I always have to remove them because they’re so itchy now.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 9 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Cutting out tags and then filing down what's left.......

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 9 points 15 hours ago

I use a seam ripper to cut the stitching and remove the label completely.

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 9 points 17 hours ago

for me shaving my body has made me need to bathe more as i seem to feel the gunk more, plus lotion i guess

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 21 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Thinking about an event in my teens when I was having pre-drinks with a bunch of guys, and one of them was joking about how I was mean to him, and I said a cutesy "aww, i'm sorry". It was kind of a dickhead frat bro-ish group and everyone just looked down and got super quiet for like 5 seconds and it was so fucking awkward.

distress

After that I realised I needed to act more masculine or people will think i'm fucking weird and I basically repressed my "natural" personality and way of communicating for years.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Ahhhh no but that's so cute, adorable mental image catgirl-heart the dickhead fratbros could probably use more of that honestly.

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 13 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

normalize being cute with your homies

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

squishmallows are just funko pops for people who aren't into capeshit

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 15 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

how dare you, funko pops cannot be cuddled

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 14 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I have dark and problematic thoughts I cannot discuss here

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