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Based and gender-abolitionism pilled Mahasi Sayadaw?
It genuinely boggles my mind how many cis people there are. Like you mean to tell me we all get assigned a social category at birth based on nothing but our sex characteristics and yet 99% of the population is like "hell yeah that doc was totally right."
Literally indistinguishable from a caste system
50% of cis people are women so I get it
Cisnormativity is a hell of a thing and must be abolished
well when we manage to start moving in the right direction in terms of transgender liberation the numbers (of us) are gonna go up significantly. many repressors out there still.
It's so strange to me, there have to be more people who want a to ditch, in whole or in part, their assigned gender at birth. 99% of the population is cis? I don't buy it
Like what if we all had our favorite color assigned at birth? It would be surprising if only 1% of the population said "eh honestly I think I like blue more"
What's the difference between that and "actually I don't belong to that social category, thank you very much."
No, it's not like that at all considering your entire social life is shaped by assignment and acceptance/rejection of sex. If colors were like that then they'd just be sex.
Getting the gender marker updated at the Social Security Administration office was easy, once I was able to get an appointment. Was complete within 5 minutes, and the staff was nice.
There's gender markers at Social Security? My card never has had any marker of gender on it.
Yes, it's in the database. I strongly recommend that you get it changed if other federal IDs are changed as well, since a mismatch between that and other documents might be flagged if the new administration tries to audit those databases to find trans people.
Iβve never had that shit done and Iβve been transitioning for years, Iβm surprised it is that simple
Well, it is right now. The Biden admin effectively instituted self-id for federal identification documents (Passports and Social Security Cards). It's very likely that the Trump admin will quickly halt this policy, so I'd recommend getting it done soon if you can.
I hope it comes back after trump
HRT update: skin is getting softer.
Not all of it has changed yet so there'll be, like, sudden patches where it's less soft on, like, my arms or legs.
Bits that've changed feel nice, still getting used to the difference in how clothes feel on my skin though.
Nice, how long have you been on it? So I know when I can expect it
About four months.
Skin softening
yapping
I kinda wonder if that's why I have so many sensory issues with clothes tbh. I don't remember having as many issues like that prior to hrt... hmmmm...
Care labels are the bane of my existence now. I always have to remove them because theyβre so itchy now.
Cutting out tags and then filing down what's left.......
I use a seam ripper to cut the stitching and remove the label completely.
for me shaving my body has made me need to bathe more as i seem to feel the gunk more, plus lotion i guess
Thinking about an event in my teens when I was having pre-drinks with a bunch of guys, and one of them was joking about how I was mean to him, and I said a cutesy "aww, i'm sorry". It was kind of a dickhead frat bro-ish group and everyone just looked down and got super quiet for like 5 seconds and it was so fucking awkward.
After that I realised I needed to act more masculine or people will think i'm fucking weird and I basically repressed my "natural" personality and way of communicating for years.
Ahhhh no but that's so cute, adorable mental image the dickhead fratbros could probably use more of that honestly.
normalize being cute with your homies
REAL
squishmallows are just funko pops for people who aren't into capeshit
how dare you, funko pops cannot be cuddled
I have dark and problematic thoughts I cannot discuss here