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Today: a short yap about computer hardware:

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[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 4 points 48 minutes ago* (last edited 47 minutes ago) (1 children)

Behold! As of today, I’m both biologically and legally female. So fuck you, fascists! Victory is mine! bridget-pride-stay-mad

[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 1 points 13 minutes ago
[–] egged@hexbear.net 10 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

Having top surgery 1 week from now, I'm very nervous but excited !!!

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 4 points 1 hour ago

dysphoriaI feel like never looking at myself is giving me a very warped sense of myself.

I either pass more than I think I do and I’m inflicting needless mental anguish on myself, or I pass even worse than I think and knowing that will destroy me.
Maybe I’ll hazard a look when I’m 50kg and been on this dose of hrt for a year.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 9 points 2 hours ago

fox news: the school nurse is giving kids bottom surgery if they ask nicely

actual school nurse: i literally cannot give you an ibuprofen or else the entire school district is getting sued to kingdom fuck

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 7 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

first bit of gardening done this year ^_^

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 6 points 3 hours ago

just a bit of weeding, can't really do much else yet

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

spoiler
spoiler self harm / suicidal thoughts (yes again 😭 sorry I keep doing this) I've gone back to self harm after about two months clean. Honestly idgaf about being clean or not right now, I want the suffering to stop. There is only one way for that to happen.

I have never been able to deal with anything. I've always been weak and pathetic. I don't think there's anything that could have gone better for me, to make me not turn out like this.

I just don't want to feel like this anymore. Why can't I be free. Why is dying just... Nothing. There is no bliss, no great life, it's just over. It's just suffering my whole existence and then it's over. Why don't I get to not suffer. :::

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 5 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Oh Egg you poor dear i'm so sorry to hear this πŸ«‚ It sounds like you're going through a very difficult time I wish there was something I could do for you! I hope you are getting some help locally??

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

πŸ«‚ No, not really unfortunately. Nothing helpful. idek what would be helpful though.

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 5 points 3 hours ago

That's some pretty heavy stuff to be going through on your own. My heart goes out to you i spent a long time wrestling those black thoughts and I know how miserable it can be.

For what it's worth I care about you and what happens to you and I know there's others here who do too. Please be kind to yourself!

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 16 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I'm pan and nonbinary and trans feminine

You all know that already but just felt like reiterating

dracula-flow flag-non-binary-pride flag-pan-pride

I'M THEM

I'VE BEEN THEM

I WILL CONTINUE TO BE THEM

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 7 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

dracula-flow

The trans feminine flag looks rad as fuck! doggirl-smug

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 2 points 38 minutes ago

This shit ain't nothing to me ma'am

[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 11 points 13 hours ago

Had a dream featuring a cute robot lady and she kept threatening to bite me, but like in a threatening way and I just kept swooning for her

[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 14 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I did get measured today fora bra after work. It was terrifying, but I did manage to do it. I now have a definitive bra size and I love it and hate it. 38I/40H. I didn’t expect that large of a cup size. Kind of gave my mind rest so I don’t have to worry about them being too small. Also, I will never buy another bra under $70.

I was terrified and nervous, but the shopkeeper did an excellent job taking care of me. I’m shocked I was able to do it. Maybe things are turning around. I hope so.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 9 points 10 hours ago

I will never buy another bra under $70.

doggirl-shock Damn that’s expensive. My bralettes are 15 bucks a piece. Maybe being small isn’t that bad.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 16 hours ago

A good bra is absolutely amazing, my first few I got from Walmart because I knew I'd be going up a size soon enough and while it worked - as soon as I spent some good money on one the difference was night and day. Plus the old ones wire would eventually make it's way out and scratch my tits, very annoying

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 14 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I had such a long and exhausting day but I got a permanent cast for my hand instead of a splint held on with an ace bandage wrap and the lady that put it on for me was the nicest person and really good about explaining everything and was so sweet, I'm gonna have to bake her some brownies or something and get her a nice card

sadI think that's the first time someone's (sort of) held my hand in like 5 years lmao catgirl-cry

After all this stressful shit, when I got home all I could think about is how nice it'd be to have a partner to come home to and just cuddle me

I'm so fucking lonely lol, it physically hurts sometimes

catgirl-flop

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 2 points 58 minutes ago

how nice it'd be to have a partner to come home to and just cuddle me

I'm so fucking lonely lol, it physically hurts sometimes

Saaaaaaaammmee.

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 15 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Oh but on a happier note, went to the park before the appointment and saw lots of nice dogs and a very cute (assuming?) gay couple and the way the one looked into the other's eyes was so adorable

Like you better be good to that boy, I can tell he fucking adores you

[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 6 points 10 hours ago

knight-nod yes gay guys very good

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

ran out of prog for almost 2 weeks and got back on, how long are these intensified mood swings gonna last it's exhausting doggirl-gloom i went through the same thing when i hopped on initially and it lasted for a good few weeks but ultimately settled down and i decided the drug was worth it. but if I'm in for another month of this cause i took 10 days off I'm gonna be pissed.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 6 points 10 hours ago

After my dose got doubled I was riding the emotion-rollercoaster for a good 2 months. Have fun! doggirl-grin

[–] crosswind@hexbear.net 17 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I started doing voice training exercises, and it feels really good and I’m already seeing changes and I’m crying a bunch.

Does anyone have tips for not having to keep stopping to yawn?

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 5 points 10 hours ago

Uh... sleep more? puzzled

Yawning shouldn’t be a part of voice training except for when you practice resonance control but there it is deliberate.

[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 13 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

The actual puppygirl struggles they don't tell you about

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

β€œI call every puppy good boy”

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 5 points 14 hours ago

cant say weve experienced this one before owo

[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 12 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

There's such sweet adorable guys in this world

[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 13 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Oop meant to post this in the general mega. Oh well, guess they'll never know i'm gay

[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 11 points 18 hours ago

Dreamt I was having the intake for bottom surgery ;-;

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