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Today: a short yap about computer hardware:

Damn I love the AM4 socket its so upgradable yay, bought a Ryzen 9 5900X for our old desktop soon to be homelab and so excited for it.

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 7 points 1 hour ago

uhhhmuhmuhmuhhmuhmhhm >~<

[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 5 points 1 hour ago

At like 4 AM a few nights ago, sleepless, I frantically penned down an apparently brand new idea for a gender-neutral pronoun in Esperanto, despite not being a proficient Esperantist. It's like this:

  • geu estas neduuma esperantisto (they are a nonbinary Esperantist)
  • mi ŝatas geun. (I like them)
  • Δ‰u vi vidis gees katon? (have you seen their cat?)

To quickly explain the idea: Esperanto has a prefix that (unofficially) forms gender-neutral words, and a suffix that (mostly unproductively) forms pronouns, so I figured that the most obvious way to create a gender-neutral pronoun in Esperanto would just be to smash these two affixes together: ge- + -u = geu. Simple as that.

To me this seemed like such an obvious idea in hindsight, that when I looked into it the next morning, I was genuinely surprised to find that apparently no-one else had ever come up with this idea before me: all the other neopronouns coined in Esperanto thus far apparently just smash the gendered pronouns together, or take the gendered pronouns and replace the first letter randomly. This approach comes with its own advantages and disadvantages, but in any case my proposal isn't really trying to "compete" with these other neopronouns, any more than they competes with xe, you know?


In completely unrelated news, did you all know that Margaret McDonald (any/all) is non-binary? I don't know when xe came out as non-binary, but xe's an English-language anime dub VA who I have heard in a lot of different things over the years. I was just watching the movie Tamako Love Story with my mom, in which McDonald plays the titular Tamako Kitashirakawa: I couldn't remember the VA's name, so I looked it up, and that's how I found out that thon was non-binary. Among many other credits, ae also plays Miho Nishizumi in Girls & Panzer β€” which was frankly the only name I could pull out of my butt, I literally said, "Tamako sounds like whoever it was who did Miho" β€” and McDonald also voiced Rikka Takanashi in the ever-goated Love, Chunibyo & Other Delusions, and he also played Sachi Momoi in Maria Holic, which interestingly enough is an anime dub that just straight up drops the T slur at one point.

So yeah, nonbinary pog.

Also, e's pan.

[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 8 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Read I Love Amy, was good but very sad at parts

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 2 points 47 minutes ago

I really enjoyed reading it. Was one of those things I could not put down.

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

discussions of transphobiahow to tell a cis person that trans people should be allowed to compete in sports because sports are arbitrary competitions they've attached excessive weight to and they should get over it

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 8 points 4 hours ago

spoilerI tried to tell a cis person that exact thing and they told me it "wasn't a good argument because some people do care." I just said "it's not an argument, I literally just don't care and I don't see why you do."

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 9 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

Saw a posting for a job I actually want instead of just needing to survive, but I don't think I'm qualified doggirl-gloom Might just apply anyway. If they laugh and throw out my resume it's not like I'll know any way.

[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 3 points 1 hour ago

Yeah I've seen that so many times.

[–] kaprap@leminal.space 5 points 3 hours ago

I need to write my resume and apply, if I'm lucky I'll have a job and one or two more years of experience when I'm not even done with uni...

Shit, good luck to you too

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 13 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (2 children)

Behold! As of today, I’m both biologically and legally female. So fuck you, fascists! Victory is mine! bridget-pride-stay-mad

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 8 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

she full on my metal until i alchemist: brotherhood

[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 2 points 1 hour ago
[–] egged@hexbear.net 18 points 7 hours ago (3 children)

Having top surgery 1 week from now, I'm very nervous but excited !!!

[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 7 points 3 hours ago

It ain’t bad and the reward is great. Enjoy the journey and don’t overexert yourself afterwards.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 12 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

dysphoriaI feel like never looking at myself is giving me a very warped sense of myself.

I either pass more than I think I do and I’m inflicting needless mental anguish on myself, or I pass even worse than I think and knowing that will destroy me.
Maybe I’ll hazard a look when I’m 50kg and been on this dose of hrt for a year.

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 7 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

::: spoiler spoiler doggirl-sweat If you don't look at yourself, do you never do your hair or put on make-up and stuff? If you worry about passing those are things that can really help.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 8 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I just shake my head until it falls into place and have my gf do my makeup doggirl-thumbsup

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 23 points 7 hours ago

fox news: the school nurse is giving kids bottom surgery if they ask nicely

actual school nurse: i literally cannot give you an ibuprofen or else the entire school district is getting sued to kingdom fuck

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 10 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

first bit of gardening done this year ^_^

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 9 points 8 hours ago

just a bit of weeding, can't really do much else yet

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

spoiler
spoiler self harm / suicidal thoughts (yes again 😭 sorry I keep doing this) I've gone back to self harm after about two months clean. Honestly idgaf about being clean or not right now, I want the suffering to stop. There is only one way for that to happen.

I have never been able to deal with anything. I've always been weak and pathetic. I don't think there's anything that could have gone better for me, to make me not turn out like this.

I just don't want to feel like this anymore. Why can't I be free. Why is dying just... Nothing. There is no bliss, no great life, it's just over. It's just suffering my whole existence and then it's over. Why don't I get to not suffer. :::

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 9 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Oh Egg you poor dear i'm so sorry to hear this πŸ«‚ It sounds like you're going through a very difficult time I wish there was something I could do for you! I hope you are getting some help locally??

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

πŸ«‚ No, not really unfortunately. Nothing helpful. idek what would be helpful though.

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 9 points 8 hours ago

That's some pretty heavy stuff to be going through on your own. My heart goes out to you i spent a long time wrestling those black thoughts and I know how miserable it can be.

For what it's worth I care about you and what happens to you and I know there's others here who do too. Please be kind to yourself!

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 19 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I'm pan and nonbinary and trans feminine

You all know that already but just felt like reiterating

dracula-flow flag-non-binary-pride flag-pan-pride

I'M THEM

I'VE BEEN THEM

I WILL CONTINUE TO BE THEM

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

dracula-flow

The trans feminine flag looks rad as fuck! doggirl-smug

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago

This shit ain't nothing to me ma'am

[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 11 points 18 hours ago

Had a dream featuring a cute robot lady and she kept threatening to bite me, but like in a threatening way and I just kept swooning for her

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