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Welcome to /c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, an anti-capitalist meme community for transgender and gender diverse people.
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Please follow the Hexbear Code of Conduct
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Selfies are not permitted for the personal safety of users.
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No personal identifying information may be posted or commented.
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Stay on topic (trans/gender stuff).
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Bring a trans friend!
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Any image post that gets 200 upvotes with "banner" or "rule 6" in the title becomes the new banner.
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Posts about dysphoria/trauma/transphobia should be NSFW tagged for community health purposes.
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When made outside of NSFW tagged posts, comments about dysphoria/traumatic/transphobic material should be spoiler tagged.
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Arguing in favor of transmedicalism is unacceptable. This is an inclusive and intersectional community.
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At like 4 AM a few nights ago, sleepless, I frantically penned down an apparently brand new idea for a gender-neutral pronoun in Esperanto, despite not being a proficient Esperantist. It's like this:
- geu estas neduuma esperantisto (they are a nonbinary Esperantist)
- mi Εatas geun. (I like them)
- Δu vi vidis gees katon? (have you seen their cat?)
To quickly explain the idea: Esperanto has a prefix that (unofficially) forms gender-neutral words, and a suffix that (mostly unproductively) forms pronouns, so I figured that the most obvious way to create a gender-neutral pronoun in Esperanto would just be to smash these two affixes together: ge- + -u = geu. Simple as that.
To me this seemed like such an obvious idea in hindsight, that when I looked into it the next morning, I was genuinely surprised to find that apparently no-one else had ever come up with this idea before me: all the other neopronouns coined in Esperanto thus far apparently just smash the gendered pronouns together, or take the gendered pronouns and replace the first letter randomly. This approach comes with its own advantages and disadvantages, but in any case my proposal isn't really trying to "compete" with these other neopronouns, any more than they competes with xe, you know?
In completely unrelated news, did you all know that Margaret McDonald (any/all) is non-binary? I don't know when xe came out as non-binary, but xe's an English-language anime dub VA who I have heard in a lot of different things over the years. I was just watching the movie Tamako Love Story with my mom, in which McDonald plays the titular Tamako Kitashirakawa: I couldn't remember the VA's name, so I looked it up, and that's how I found out that thon was non-binary. Among many other credits, ae also plays Miho Nishizumi in Girls & Panzer β which was frankly the only name I could pull out of my butt, I literally said, "Tamako sounds like whoever it was who did Miho" β and McDonald also voiced Rikka Takanashi in the ever-goated Love, Chunibyo & Other Delusions, and he also played Sachi Momoi in Maria Holic, which interestingly enough is an anime dub that just straight up drops the T slur at one point.
So yeah, nonbinary pog.
Also, e's pan.
Read I Love Amy, was good but very sad at parts
I really enjoyed reading it. Was one of those things I could not put down.
discussions of transphobia
how to tell a cis person that trans people should be allowed to compete in sports because sports are arbitrary competitions they've attached excessive weight to and they should get over it
spoiler
I tried to tell a cis person that exact thing and they told me it "wasn't a good argument because some people do care." I just said "it's not an argument, I literally just don't care and I don't see why you do."
Saw a posting for a job I actually want instead of just needing to survive, but I don't think I'm qualified Might just apply anyway. If they laugh and throw out my resume it's not like I'll know any way.
Yeah I've seen that so many times.
I need to write my resume and apply, if I'm lucky I'll have a job and one or two more years of experience when I'm not even done with uni...
Shit, good luck to you too
Behold! As of today, Iβm both biologically and legally female. So fuck you, fascists! Victory is mine!
congratulations sis!!!
Thanks, comrade.
hell yeah
she full on my metal until i alchemist: brotherhood
Hell yeah
Having top surgery 1 week from now, I'm very nervous but excited !!!
It ainβt bad and the reward is great. Enjoy the journey and donβt overexert yourself afterwards.
dysphoria
I feel like never looking at myself is giving me a very warped sense of myself.
I either pass more than I think I do and Iβm inflicting needless mental anguish on myself, or I pass even worse than I think and knowing that will destroy me.
Maybe Iβll hazard a look when Iβm 50kg and been on this dose of hrt for a year.
::: spoiler spoiler If you don't look at yourself, do you never do your hair or put on make-up and stuff? If you worry about passing those are things that can really help.
I just shake my head until it falls into place and have my gf do my makeup
based
fox news: the school nurse is giving kids bottom surgery if they ask nicely
actual school nurse: i literally cannot give you an ibuprofen or else the entire school district is getting sued to kingdom fuck
first bit of gardening done this year ^_^
just a bit of weeding, can't really do much else yet
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I have never been able to deal with anything. I've always been weak and pathetic. I don't think there's anything that could have gone better for me, to make me not turn out like this.
I just don't want to feel like this anymore. Why can't I be free. Why is dying just... Nothing. There is no bliss, no great life, it's just over. It's just suffering my whole existence and then it's over. Why don't I get to not suffer. :::
Oh Egg you poor dear i'm so sorry to hear this π« It sounds like you're going through a very difficult time I wish there was something I could do for you! I hope you are getting some help locally??
π« No, not really unfortunately. Nothing helpful. idek what would be helpful though.
That's some pretty heavy stuff to be going through on your own. My heart goes out to you i spent a long time wrestling those black thoughts and I know how miserable it can be.
For what it's worth I care about you and what happens to you and I know there's others here who do too. Please be kind to yourself!
I'm pan and nonbinary and trans feminine
You all know that already but just felt like reiterating
I'M THEM
I'VE BEEN THEM
I WILL CONTINUE TO BE THEM
The trans feminine flag looks rad as fuck!
This shit ain't nothing to me ma'am
Had a dream featuring a cute robot lady and she kept threatening to bite me, but like in a threatening way and I just kept swooning for her