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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 74 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Shame, I do so love disappointing people's parents by being weird and turning their "son" into my girlfriend yea

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 54 points 7 months ago
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[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 67 points 7 months ago (1 children)

this meme lied to me. i had dinner on christmas with my gf's family and it ruled

[–] RedQuestionAsker2@hexbear.net 44 points 7 months ago

Me reading the title: is this chaser shit on hexbear?

Me reading the meme: oh lol

[–] puff@hexbear.net 40 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (6 children)

Finding another communist to date is essentially impossible. I have never dated a communist.

[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 47 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Just go to DSA meetings and be weird to all the women 🤡

[–] puff@hexbear.net 28 points 7 months ago
[–] SacredExcrement@hexbear.net 40 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Date a sympathetic lib, make them a communist

[–] WideningGyro@hexbear.net 37 points 7 months ago (1 children)

That's basically what I did. My partner was generally lib/apolitical, then I have gradually radicalized her. I did get super lucky that she understands and had/has very strong opinions about climate and environmentalism (part of how we bonded in the first place), so that was an easy vector -> explaining why I believed that solving those problems was impossible without communism. Now we'll be watching some slop tv show and she'll start to do unpromted material analysis and it gets me all hot and bothered

[–] SacredExcrement@hexbear.net 20 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Same, I love to watch them go on rants

Except I started as a lib too lol

[–] WideningGyro@hexbear.net 11 points 7 months ago

Oh me too, of course! I was just further along in my radicalization than her when we met - and generally more interested in politics/ideology

[–] Babs@hexbear.net 13 points 7 months ago

My bf used to be really into radlib streamers like funny clown man, and radicalizing him was a long hard process, but very rewarding. He already had basically the right principles, just needed a bit of deprogramming.

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 28 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

i did this tho, i quizzed everyone that messaged me on marx on dating apps and it worked. now have best bf

[–] machiabelly@hexbear.net 18 points 7 months ago (2 children)

thats incredible, what questions did you ask?

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 21 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

basic stuff in the communist manifesto and terms like dialectical materialism. i was even anarchist inclusive, bf was anarchy adjacent before covid, became a hardline commie after, so we talked about kropotkin and stuff

i had a bad time where a guy acted like he was a socialist but wasnt in an attempt to have sex with me and i got very thorough (he went to some maga thing on an account he didnt tell me about)

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 18 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

oh and if you date another trans person, odds are theyre a socialist of some kind and you can convince them to be commies by explaining the thought process behind it. i dated a couple of other trans women before meeting my bf, we liked each other a lot but it just didnt work out for a variety of reasons. still big friends and theyre all hardliners now

[–] DyingOfDeBordom@hexbear.net 27 points 7 months ago

Try putting "i'm a communist" on your dating profiles, it's worked for me

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 19 points 7 months ago (2 children)

simply hang out with someone who seems cool, realize they're a communist, then fall in love

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[–] ButtBidet@hexbear.net 35 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Ignorant CIS OOTL guy here: does this mean that trans women don't get along with their parents? If so, I'm mad sorry :(

[–] Shinhoshi@lemmygrad.ml 57 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It means that there are a lot of trans people who get disowned by unsupportive parents

[–] ButtBidet@hexbear.net 37 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] AutomatedPossum@hexbear.net 44 points 7 months ago

Or who have to go no contact because keeping up with the verbal abuse is too draining. Like, that's an actual term in US queer communities, to go no contact. When you stop answering calls and coming over for the holidays because you just can't take that shit anymore. I feel it's a lot more widespread among Amerikan queer people (not just trans and nonbinary folks, also gay cis people) than among Europeans. Like, i'm in community with some people who have really awful, transphobic parents who constantly deadname and misgender them and just act like complete douches at every opportunity, and i know stories of queer people who've been homeless for a while because their parents immediately kicked them out of the house when they came out, this happens here as well, but the open hostility and especially the homelesness thing seems more common in the US.

[–] CrispyFern@hexbear.net 35 points 7 months ago
[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 33 points 7 months ago (2 children)

In my polycule consisting of 3 trans girls, you can meet exactly zero of our collective parents.

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[–] frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml 31 points 7 months ago (2 children)

that awkward moment when you're a well-bearded they and still realizing you have damn near this entire fit sitting in pieces in your closet

[–] gramxi@hexbear.net 31 points 7 months ago (1 children)

but also if she does openly introduce you to her parents, they're probably gonna be pretty cool parents

[–] Des@hexbear.net 9 points 7 months ago (2 children)
[–] kristina@hexbear.net 14 points 7 months ago

fr itd be great to have a commie mom

[–] the_itsb@hexbear.net 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

cat-trans I will hug you all to pieces and make your favorite dinner meow-hug

you don't even have to date my kid, just lmk if you're passing through Ohio, I've got a bed and a plate for each of you ❤️

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[–] Ocommie63@lemmygrad.ml 27 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

I need this girls fit

Edit: real gender envy moments

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 21 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Ngl I basically already wear exactly this every day lmao. Not the exact style, but the beret + bow + autumn jacket fit is very comfy, although I also add a scarf. If you need suggestions on pieces to replicate something similar I can tell you where I got a couple of mine. I'd recommend thrifting if you can though, you can often find very cute clothes cheaper that way.

[–] Ocommie63@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 7 months ago (6 children)

I would greatly like some suggestions on recreating this fit, because when it comes to fashion I’m a big dum dum. I wish I had the courage to shop for clothes irl 😔😔😔

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[–] Babs@hexbear.net 26 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Posting here because I too would like to dress like the cool anime girl.

[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 22 points 7 months ago

I want to be the cool anime girl (still cis).

[–] material_delinquent@hexbear.net 20 points 7 months ago

Batman voice: My parents are DEAD

[–] What_Religion_R_They@hexbear.net 19 points 7 months ago

just make it so your parents are financially dependent on you so they cant disown you. schooled with material conditions and logic 😎

[–] sisatici@hexbear.net 16 points 7 months ago

Hope every transphobe parent of yours see the light of islam and and realise how wrong they are to not love you and read you das capital before bed

[–] LesbianLiberty@hexbear.net 14 points 7 months ago
[–] AernaLingus@hexbear.net 13 points 7 months ago

Thought that was Korone for a sec (phonetically close, it's Kogane from iDOLM@STER)

[–] Camille@lemmy.ml 12 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I did show this meme to my boyfriend once, he agreed. Then months later he met my parents. We played him for an absolute foul haha

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[–] 240p@hexbear.net 11 points 7 months ago

completed it mate

[–] bigboopballs@hexbear.net 9 points 7 months ago

sounds good

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