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Cardiac arrest, also known as Sudden Cardiac Arrest, is when the heart stops beating suddenly. The lack of blood flow to the brain and other organs can cause a person to lose consciousness, become disabled or die if not treated immediately.

The terms ‘heart attack’ and ‘cardiac arrest’ are often used interchangeably, but these are two different heart conditions.

A heart attack occurs when there is a blockage in the arteries that stops blood flow in the heart. Due to the lack of blood and oxygen flowing in the heart, the heart muscle tissue will become damaged. Heart attacks can increase the risk for cardiac arrest because heart attacks can alter electrical signals in the heart.

CPR – or Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation – is an emergency lifesaving procedure performed when the heart stops beating. Immediate CPR can double or triple chances of survival after cardiac arrest.

If someone experiences cardiac arrest, they need immediate treatment to increase the flow of oxygen-rich blood to their organs. CPR is the compression over the chest to manually pump a patients heart. Rescue breaths are preformed to provide oxygen to the body.

During CPR, proper hand placement on the lower half of the sternum is crucial. Placing hands over the sternum ensures effective chest compressions directly above the heart, optimizing blood circulation throughout the body.

According to the American Heart Association (AHA), the overall survival rate for out-of-hospital cardiac arrest is around 10%. However, survival rates can be improved if bystander CPR is started immediately. Studies have shown that bystander CPR increases the chances of survival for someone experiencing cardiac arrest. In fact, the AHA reports that survival rates increases to 40% or higher when bystander CPR is performed promptly. The surival rate is between 24% and 40% for those that happen in the hospital, according to the report published online in the Emergency Medicine Journal.

CPR is preformed between 100 - 120 beats per minute. Famously Staying Alive by the Bee Gees is the same beat. A large list of songs with the correct BPM can be found here


cure-for-fascism The American Red Cross gives the following list of steps to asses if CPR is needed and how to preform:

1 CHECK the scene for safety, form an initial impression and use personal protective equipment (PPE)

2 If the person appears unresponsive, CHECK for responsiveness, breathing, life-threatening bleeding or other life-threatening conditions using shout-tap-shout

3 If the person does not respond and is not breathing or only gasping, CALL 9-1-1 and get equipment, or tell someone to do so

4 Kneel beside the person. Place the person on their back on a firm, flat surface

5 The American Red Cross CPR guidelines recommend 100 to 120 chest compressions per minute, 30 at a time. Remember these five points:

Hand position: Two hands centered on the chest

Body position: Shoulders directly over hands; elbows locked

Compression depth: At least 2 inches

Rate of compressions: 100 to 120 per minute

Allow chest to return to normal position after each compression

6

Give 2 breaths

Open the airway to a past-neutral position using the head-tilt/chin-lift technique Pinch the nose shut, take a normal breath, and make complete seal over the person’s mouth with your mouth. Ensure each breath lasts about 1 second and makes the chest rise; allow air to exit before giving the next breath Note: If the 1st breath does not cause the chest to rise, retilt the head and ensure a proper seal before giving the 2nd breath If the 2nd breath does not make the chest rise, an object may be blocking the airway

7 Continue giving sets of 30 chest compressions and 2 breaths. Use an AED as soon as one is available! Minimize interruptions to chest compressions to less than 10 seconds.

Video instructions

Sources:

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/cardiac-arrest

https://cpr.heart.org/en/resources/cpr-facts-and-stats

https://www.mycprcertificationonline.com/blog/cpr-success-rate

Instructional images from the AHS Basic Life Support Manual (2020)

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My fake rural fake hick fake small town is showing the fucking Matt Walsh flick. This is a town where people drive immaculate lifted trucks to get Starbucks (and can't reach down far enough to get the coffee) and slow down before driving where the road was torn up because they dont wanna damage their shocks, they were the cleanest cowboy boots you've ever seen to an office gig, it's too big to be a small town and too small and conservative to be a city, there's one museum hidden behind some kind of maze at the local library except for the museum that shows off "ancient" farming equipment like og tractors from 100 years ago

They didn't screen I Saw The TV Glow, the didn't screen Civil War, they didn't screen It Ends With Us, oh but they'll screen Matt Walsh. And they're probably right that it'll sell out.

They are screening Megalopolis though which honestly is just a weird decision given the above

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I just had a meeting with my coworkers and they all called me my preferred name all the way through and it felt so aggressively normal? It was nice.

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (10 children)

apparently i have a slight nut allergy wtf? how has this never been a problem until now

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

god, cis people really don't know what "the signs" are of a repressed trans child are at all

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

It took about 8 and a half months, but my left boob now fills out an A cup aubrey-happy there's still an awkward pocket of air on the right side though

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (10 children)

Facial Feminisation Surgery...... Yes I see, very good, however... where Facial Masculisation Surgery? brow

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[–] PopPrincess@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (5 children)

How do you cope with the dysphoria?🥹

Dysphoria and other bad stuffYaa idk I'm starting to feel awful and suicidal again. Like I've come pretty far, I seem to pass and be semi-stealth in day-to-day life (though I'm not sure), but dysphoria is still getting to me. I just get constant reminders, like I'll never be able to have kids, dating is a nightmare, I hate being trapped in my disgusting body. Puberty mangled me, and I'll never be able to fix the damage, and I doubt I'll ever find a boyfriend. I have a big urge to start selfharming again.

The thought of being stuck in this body for the rest of my life makes me feel sick, and I often wonder if it's all worth it. Like why suffer through the next many decades like this? I'll never have the life or body I want😞

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

::: spoiler vent about hormones Wondering if my hrt degraded during the heat waves of summer, and so my monotherapy isnt working the same for to block T. No breast growth, fat slowly moving back to more masc places, more acne recently, and its all been very slowly getting worse over the past like month or two (to my perception at least). Im on 15 u100 units of 40mg/ml enenthate (works out to 6mg (i think)), but if it degraded idk if it still works out to that amount. Im getting levels done for the first time in 2 weeks, but idk if i should bump my injections by a couple units or not now, vs waiting for my levels to come back. I hate being my own doctor.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (3 children)

you ever have one of those hobbies/things you get into that you can't even mention on a site like Hexbear without getting turbo doxxed?

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)

This site needs another purge. leslie-shining

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

polycule that travels coast to coast from seattle to new york, adding and removing partners along the way

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[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Put my insurance information into PP, and I saw they use your chosen name, and not your legal one.

I dunno why but that hit was the bit I needed to turn the nervousness into excitement. I can't fuckin wait to start HRT! <3

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sometimes I’ll see a pair of characters in an anime or show and be like “lol they look so short next to the other” anya-heh
But then I realize it’s like half the height difference between me and my gf distress

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I came out to the first time to a person outside of Hexbear. She's also a trans leftist, and an online gaming friend. I had this massive pit in my chest, but she is super supportive (which should have been obvious to expect, but I have bad anxiety).

So, I am happy, and I hope that it keeps getting easier.

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[–] Ivysaur@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (9 children)

This is stupid as fuck and I need to talk about this or I’m going to almost certainly be overthinking it all night.

heterophobia?I had a long and pleasant conversation with a guy and one of his friends tonight that went sour pretty quickly and I’m not really even sure what just happened. He was very charming all night and his friend (also a woman) was very nice. Somehow the topic of sexuality came up and we were playfully saying things like “I like tacos and cucumbers equally”, just dumb stuff like that. I was teasing him a little because he said he “didn’t like hotdogs”, to which I cheekily said “free your mind of its shackles, young padawan. there is no spoon.”

He starts going off about how he must just be different because he doesn’t “force his opinions on anyone else” and after thinking he was also still just joking around, I said, “fine, fine I’ll quit bullying you, for now”

He was completely serious! He went on about how I “give people like me (a bisexual woman) a bad name” (???) and by this point I was completely done with the conversation. I was taken aback that he was being so serious about this and told him “you must not be very confident if this is all it takes to get you riled up”, checked out and left immediately.

Listen, like I said, I know this is dumb as hell, but was I actually in the wrong? I thought I was just being a little teasing, nothing serious, but apparently I was “shoving my opinions on everyone else.”

Trans mega, was I a jerk? Or is this guy a weirdo?

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

spoilerSomeone has a very fragile masculinity and a very fragile grasp on their heterosexuality lol

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[–] Wake@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I think I'm actually finally going to go makeup shopping today. I have a few hours to kill this afternoon between Dr appointments and I can't think of a single thing that would be a better use of my time.

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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Shaved my mustache for the first time in about 10 years. Planning to shave my arms, then my legs if that goes well.

I feel like a child left unattended. But ranting feels like wheel-spinning. I'll fight for my soul, I'll do it.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

navel gazing, journaling

I need to be talking about kink more, I think. I have the seeds of the kink special interest, maybe. Dangerous ground but the sort of uh, psychology? Mentality? Internal goings-on around and related to kink fascinate me utterly, I adore it. I also think it's stellar how it intersects with things like autism, or even trauma. It's very fucking cool, there's something deeper to it. Coincidentally I'm really glad I did all that ugly trauma processing months ago so that I can more directly talk about this stuff, and have it be relevant to me.

Also I just love (trans) people, truthfully. I don't get on with most because I'm jagged and weird socially but I love talking interpersonal stuff, especially when you and your conversation buddy can bounce back and forth between light chatter about your interests and deep, considered discussion of interpersonal or internal matters. Bonus points if you have threaded conversations and talk about both and more at once. I really feel a fast and firm connection to anyone who can do this w/me.

The trick is not to talk to allistics (or cis people lmao) so much. A few of them might be okay, but while not everyone with autism is a cool person obviously, talking to autistic people that you really click with is on suuuuuch a different level. Thank you, autistic conversation partners cat-trans my beloved.

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[–] Lenins_Cat_Reincarnated@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Before I got long covid I wished I could be at multiple places at once, now I just wish I could be at places 🥲

Been trying to go to trans support groups but every time I’m too tired to leave the house & meet people

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

just got disqualified from the "thinking about women" competition after I failed to show up because I was too busy thinking about girls

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

legend of korra got me working out again. result tbh

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (7 children)

I love my trans comrades. I also love my future trans comrades who ask for hormones out of left field, lmao. cat-trans

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (12 children)

I started writing this, and then before posting I (for once) actually considered if this should be spoilered lol

weird horni thoughtsIn the realm of possibilities it's kind of bullshit that we have such boring courtship rituals and no rutting season.

Imagine, if you will, humans had a 4 month rutting season - the other 8 months of the year, sex doesn't matter, you don't even notice any secondary sex characteristics even. What a relief! Now combine that 4 month rutting season with bird courtship rituals. You want to mate this season? You have to build me a house. Also do a funky dance. Also put a bunch of blue around it. Hmm, okay you're cute enough and you did build me a house.

I'm not being unreasonable, of course I'd love spider habits of eating anyone's head off as a nice snack if they didn't do well enough for me (sometimes even if they did do well enough but I'm hungry). I'm not saying we should have that. I am saying we could've had something neat and weird and we ended up with dating apps.

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[–] comrade_rain@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Second laser session on my face this morning. Burning hair is dysphoria leaving the body!

Also a question. I don't have a lot of body hair to begin with. Will the hormones pretty much wipe out my nipple and stomach hair? The laser clinic is running a deal right now and I can get both of those done for 35 bucks a month (for like three years of payments).

Considering that's like two packs of cigarettes and I'm trying to quit smoking anyway, I'm seriously considering it. But if the estrogen is going to take care of it likely then I figure I should save my money.

Curious though what have other people's experiences been with body hair?

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)
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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

I am such an eepy trans girl, I keep falling asleep without really meaning to. Maybe I'll try to go to bed earlier thurston

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (3 children)

How bad is it to not do laser every month?
Would it be the end of the world if I waited 2 months for this next one?

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

an asteroid will hit the earth if you skip a month

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[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Okay, so what's the process for getting on E and anti-androgens in amerikkka?

I see planned parenthood has gender affirming therapy appointments. Do I just go in there and tell them I want the girl juice?

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[–] Philosoraptor@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Analyze the situation. If necessary, start

Compressions. Check the

Airway and also manage

Breathing.

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Coming down with a case of gear acquisition syndrome

If I were rich I could easily see myself blowing like twenty grand on instruments and amps and pedals and recording stuff

Currently looking at basses

A Bass VI makes the most sense for me but I kinda love Mustang PJ basses and this Orange O-Bass is really neat to me and it matches most of my wardrobe and cats lmao

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

oh god the jehovah's witnesses are about

i am very much not interested in a home bible study, thanks

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